Blinders

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This is week three of a four-week series based on the following account from Mark 10:46-52 (NRSV):

     They came to Jericho. As he and his disciples and a large crowd were leaving Jericho, Bartimaeus son of Timaeus, a blind beggar, was sitting by the roadside. When he heard that it was Jesus of Nazareth, he began to shout out and say, “Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!” Many sternly ordered him to be quiet, but he cried out even more loudly, “Son of David, have mercy on me!” Jesus stood still and said, “Call him here.” And they called the blind man, saying to him, “Take heart; get up, he is calling you.” So, throwing off his cloak, he sprang up and came to Jesus. Then Jesus said to him, “What do you want me to do for you?” The blind man said to him, “My teacher, let me see again.” Jesus said to him, “Go; your faith has made you well.” Immediately he regained his sight and followed him on the way.

     The way the crowd reacted when Bart cried out is jarring to me.  In fairness, I could be letting my imagination run away with me.  Maybe they shushed Bart in the most loving of ways that made him feel like he just got a nice warm hug.  But I doubt it.  The reason I doubt it is because in my experience of being a human being, groups like this can get rude and inhumane, focusing on the wrong thing and acting in ways as a group that they probably wouldn’t if they were alone.  This phenomenon is called groupthink.  When it gets ugly, we call it mob mentality.  The gist is the same – people in a group are influenced by the group itself, wanting to conform and remain accepted by the group, and will do things they don’t understand or believe in as individuals to remain in good standing.  Checking out this fascinating video of an experiment in a waiting room.  Check out this video for a fuller examination of groupthink, how it works, and its dangerous potential.

     Bart chose not to conform to social norms that day when he broke his silence as Jesus walked by.  His crying out for help was bigger than his vision issue.  There was something terribly wrong beyond his inability to see.  Bart himself didn’t fit the group.  He was very likely not welcome in the group, treated poorly by the group, made to feel stupid by the group, and told he was cursed by God from the group.  There are a lot of Barts in the world, and when they cry out, they get shushed.  My guess is that every time a person chooses to buck the system and cry out – an indicator that the group has neglected to listen to and include their perspective or person – the group reacts aggressively.  This happens in family systems when somebody calls out a patriarch or matriarch for whatever behavior they may have been perpetuating that may not promote the best for everyone anymore.  This is painfully evident when a family system supports a family member’s addiction or refusal to address their mental health struggle.  Mess with the system and there will be hell to pay.  In Family Systems Theory, problems sometimes rise and are seen not with the addict, but with someone in the system who, like Bart, starts acting up (usually unwittingly).  This Identified Patient isn’t the real problem, but rather a symptom of a larger issue at work in families.  The interesting thing is that sometimes the family members will protect the unhealthy system because they know that things will get miserable if the status quo is challenged.

     Of course, this happens on the largest of scales as well.  Our ancestors who settled what we now call the United States were at least informed by the Christian faith if not motivated to come to our shores due to their deep religious convictions.  And yet they were responsible for the eradication of the Indigenous Peoples who had lived here for thousands of years.  I know that some say that this is just the way it is all over the world, which is accurate.  But the Kingdom of God that Jesus came to announce and usher in doesn’t operate the way the rest of the world does.  The Kingdom of God also does not encourage the buying and selling and abusing other human beings, yet we took it to a whole new level in the US.  Not surprisingly, when both issues were challenged – even within religious communities – it was met with fierce resistance.  Some advocates of change were deemed heretics.  After all, the argument went, the Bible does not explicitly forbid owning other human beings as slaves, so can you really condemn it? Of course, we’re not the only country guilty of such groupthink mentality.  Canada made similar offenses against Indigenous Peoples that are horrific as well. Sensible individual Germans, when the power of groupthink came into play, became a machine for the death of millions of Jewish people.  Every culture likely has a similar history of destruction related to groupthink.

     The reality isn’t just in our past, however, it is extremely and painfully current.  Wonder what they might be?  You don’t have to work too hard.  Most headlines that deal with anything remotely political will signal where groupthink is at play.  Economic policy, foreign policy, immigration policy, environmental policy, civil rights policies, education, health – it is a long list.  With the dawn of new communication platforms offered by social media and the prevalence of smartphones, groupthink has become more powerful and perhaps more sophisticated than ever before.  Watch Netflix’s The Social Dilemma if you’re wondering just how sophisticated things have become.

     My goal isn’t to push buttons that have already been pushed.  We are at a time of increased sensitivity (to say the least). The dynamics are not new even though the names of characters might be.  What we are living in is what human beings have lived in from the very beginning.  The dynamic will be with us forever.  Barts of many kinds will continue to cry out.  The question is, how will we choose to respond?

     It is annoying and uncomfortable when people challenge the system(s) in which we feel at home.  It’s easy to blow off Bart.  But what if it’s Jesus who is the one crying out?  What if the Spirit of God working through Jesus was actually an echo of Bart, saying the very same thing? “God, have mercy, now!”

     I believe this is the case.  Jesus didn’t come to build a new level on top of the foundation of what was in place.  He came to tear it down and rebuild it.  The foundation was fine, but the structure got wonky, like the builders forgot to bring a square, a level, and a plumb bob.  The Kingdom of God was and is a different operating system than what the world prefers.  Jesus came to shine a light on both: he called out systems that were not aligned with the Spirit of God and he taught about what the Spirit of God was trying to do in the world.  He had the audacity to call it Good News, which he stole from Rome.  Jesus was saying that the Good News of God was better than the Good News of the Roman Empire.  In challenging the restrictions of the Jewish leadership, Jesus was also saying that the salvation offered by God was bigger, more expansive, and more inclusive than the salvation peddled by the Temple leadership.  The Spirit of God is still making those same declarations.  The dream of God for humanity is bigger than the American Dream.  The experience of becoming whole and well is deeper than is offered by popular religion in America.  Do we have ears to hear?  Do we sense a craving to know more?

     Next week I will address what that journey looks like if we choose to listen, see, and follow. But for now, be humbled by the fact that the healer, Jesus, who stopped and addressed Bart, which was an act of disruption, marched on to Jerusalem where all his system-bucking came to a climax.  Groupthink came into play once again and resulted in the death of one of the purest, loveliest, most grace-filled human beings that ever lived.  Groupthink has the capacity to do that.  We are capable of horrific atrocities – all of us – especially when we are encouraged by a group.  We likely have already been part of some horrible stuff that is directly counter to the Kingdom of God and haven’t even recognized it because our group has done its job.  If you’re feeling a bit defensive right now, you just proved my point.

     The homework I encourage for all of us is to regularly examine all the groups with which we affiliate, knowing that they all have their groupthink effect on us.  We are human, after all. Might there be a part of us that wonders how the Kingdom of God, the Good News, might challenge our systems?

Sexuality and Process Theology in Action

The following is the audio from a session of An Interesting Conference on Sexuality hosted by Jonathon Foster along with Tom Oord. we have a wonderful presentation from Monica Coleman. Monica is a process theologian, author, and someone who speaks around the world on all kinds of topics. She brings to light the interrelatedness of all things, the importance of communication, consent, and power in all things sexuality related. When you check into Monica's work by going to monicaacoleman.com, you'll find she speaks on many of the issues that religious leaders usually avoid: sexual and domestic violence, mental health, postmodernism, and religious diversity. Monica is a great gift to us all!

Sexuality and the Purity Culture

This is the audio from An Interesting Conference about Sexuality hosted by Jonathon Foster along with Tom Oord. This episode features Linda Kay Klein (who is interviewed by her husband, Jimmy). Linda is something of a trailblazer. She's the best selling author of Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free. She has a lot of wisdom to offer and among other things in this video, I think she gives women permission to be themselves, to begin to define sexuality on their own terms, and to name the dis-health of the evangelical purity culture. Yes, it's challenging, but that's not to say that staying with the "tenants" of the purity culture isn't messy either! Linda has spoken around the world from the TEDx stage to The Apollo’s Women of the World Festival. Her work has been featured by the New York Times, NPR, CBS, NBC, Elle Magazine, and 150 other outlets. Learn more at lindakayklein.com

Blind: Labels

     Rosemary Mahoney spent time at a school for the blind in Tibet.  She discovered that three general things happen to the blind across the globe.  First, they are deemed stupid by the culture around them.  Second, they are considered cursed by God.  Third, in different ways, they are made to feel like a burden on society.  In her research on persons who were born or became blind, she notes that while there may be an initial despair for what has happened, they move forward to learn how to live in the world.  They don’t romanticize it – it is hard – yet they are not undone by it either.  In village after village, blind kids were treated like animals because it was assumed that they were dumb and unsafe to be left alone; they felt cursed, and they felt the weight of shame put on them by the culture around them.

     I wonder what motivated Bart more – the regain his sight for sight’s sake, or to regain his sight so that he no longer had to live under the burden of the voices all around him?  Surely, he was exhausted and beaten down by the constant barrage of words, tone, and behavioral response from the many around him.  Living in the world was tough enough for Bart.  Not having a choice regarding how he was treated by those around him was salt in his wound.  Perhaps his yearning to be free was a heart-cry stemming from his despair – not from being blind, but from the assault of the many around him.

     In literal blindness, when sight is lost, the brain begins to forget how to see.  So much so that, if a significant amount of time has passed, the brain has to relearn how to see, which takes a long time – a couple of years!  I wonder how long it takes for us to see our true selves after a long time of being formed to see ourselves by others’ definitions.  How have we, like Bart, been labeled?  How have we embraced, adopted, and believed that the labels we have been given are true?

     Labels related to age, height, weight, shape, education, economic status, employment, “looks”, mental health, physical health, sexuality, sexual identity, gender, skin tone, religiosity, ethnicity, criminality, immigration, political persuasion... how many labels are there? Labels limit, even labels that we choose to identify with, because when we choose to wrap our persona around a particular label, we make it difficult to live outside of the label.  Can Giants’ fans cheer for the A’s? Can Niners root for the Raiders?  Can country music fans like Coldplay?  Can a fan of high-end clothing or cars also don Old Navy and be content in a clunker? The answer is yes, of course, yet voices around us will sometimes make it challenging.

     Most of the time we don’t change much unless there is a truly compelling reason to do so.  Usually, our discontent has to be high enough to make it worth it.  We are not very proactive when it comes to major life change.  Change is hard enough in isolation.  Add the force of labels that we have chosen (as well as those that are placed on us) and a sort of prison emerges.  Getting out of that prison takes enormous energy.  Staying out does, too, because we will very naturally revert to the way things were.  Sometimes the promise of freedom seems elusive, only coming around now and them. 

     Bart’s level of pain was finally great enough, and the promise of freedom present enough in Jesus that he decided to act.  Last week I pointed out the urgency of his request, which can perhaps come off a little bit audacious, apparently demanding immediate attention from Jesus.  It was, which is why the crowd hushed him.  I wonder, however, if the urgency was for Bart as much as for Jesus, as if Bart was yelling out, “I can’t take it anymore! I am ready to be free of life as it is right now. I want to see; I want my blinders off!  Now!”

     The Good News Jesus proclaimed is all about that, and the invitation to a different way of life is central to experiencing the Good News.  For many people, the moment of crying for help and hearing that there is acceptance, forgiveness in some cases, and a new way is so powerful that it results in a feeling of being born again.  I have had this experience more than once.  It is euphoric.  Joy overflows.  Life is filled once again with promise.  Hope is restored. The initial moment is just the beginning, however.  It is important, but it really is the first step on the trail.

     Bart surely had such a moment, and then he saw another decision before him.  If he had hopes of a truly new life, he could see that it required learning a lot of new ways of being and doing in the world.  He recognized that he needed support – he was not going to be able to move forward in isolation. Did others help him realize this?  Probably.  We don’t know all that took place in those moments following the lifting of his blindness, but what we do know is that he chose to follow Jesus forward.  He realized that the Way of faith is different than the way he had previously travelled, and so he chose to follow the one who knew the way, with the support of others.

     The journey of faith is incapsulated in Bart’s story.  At different points in our lives, we come to see that we are ready for change, ready for something new.  Faith is not a one-and-done thing – it is a journey of discovery where we learn a new Way of living.  The invitation always comes from love, is always for our growing into the depths of love and is marked by love (sometimes tough love).  Most of the time we don’t even know where our blind spots are until we cannot ignore them anymore.  Sometimes we realize that we are in the doldrums and want to get out of them. Sometimes our lives blow up. Sometimes we get an epiphany of something new and different that we can’t look away from.  They all come to a point where we see the reality of our lives, the invitation to learn the unforced rhythms of grace, and decide to call out.  Bishop Michael Curry sums it well:

There is a Jewish proverb, “Before every person there marches an angel proclaiming, ‘Behold, the image of God.’” Unselfish, sacrificial living isn’t about ignoring or denying or destroying yourself. It’s about discovering your true self—the self that looks like God—and living life from that grounding. Many people are familiar with a part of Jesus’s summary of the law of Moses: You shall love your neighbor as you love yourself. Yourself. Loving the self is a required balance. If we fail in that, we fail our neighbor, too. To love your neighbor is to relate to them as someone made in the image of the God. And it is to relate to yourself as someone made in the image of the God. It’s God, up, down, and all around, and God is love.

– Love Is the Way: Holding on to Hope in Troubling Times

     Bart, what do you want God to do for you?  Are you ready to make your desire known?  Are you ready to add urgency to your request?  Are you ready to follow Jesus’ Way that leads to life, supported by others? Maybe for you it’s the first time you’ve seen the hope before you, or maybe it’s the umpteenth time.  The journey is filled with never-ending invitations to join the party on the Way.  Today the invitation is before you, Bart.  What’s your RSVP?

Blind: Overview

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Mark 10:46-52 (NRSV)

     They came to Jericho. As he and his disciples and a large crowd were leaving Jericho, Bartimaeus son of Timaeus, a blind beggar, was sitting by the roadside. When he heard that it was Jesus of Nazareth, he began to shout out and say, “Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!” Many sternly ordered him to be quiet, but he cried out even more loudly, “Son of David, have mercy on me!” Jesus stood still and said, “Call him here.” And they called the blind man, saying to him, “Take heart; get up, he is calling you.” So throwing off his cloak, he sprang up and came to Jesus. Then Jesus said to him, “What do you want me to do for you?” The blind man said to him, “My teacher, let me see again.” Jesus said to him, “Go; your faith has made you well.” Immediately he regained his sight and followed him on the way.

We’re going to hang out with these verses for a few weeks. There is just too much here to fit into one Sunday!

     Bartimaeus.  When we lose our sight, we don’t just lose our sight.  Our vision fades to black, but over time our memory does as well.  We struggle to remember the shapes of things, colors, textures.  Blindness is deeper than a literal vision problem – it affects how we see.  We don’t know when Tim and his wife’s son became blind – birth or some form of infection or accident – but we do know that the result went way beyond his physical condition.  When people today suffer a physical birth defect or mental health condition, really big questions often emerge: why did this happen?  Was God involved in this?  Did God willfully choose this, or allow it?  Or if it was an accident or virus of some sort, the same questions would come up.  Even today, with our much more enlightened scientific understanding, the questions loom, sometimes never articulated yet always there.  And even today we struggle with answering the question from a theological space – we often find ourselves more primitive in our thoughts than we’d care to admit.  Yet they are there.  In Jesus’ time, all of this was exponentially more pronounced. Either way, blindness was viewed as a curse from God, a punishment for sin on the part of the blinded one, or even his parents or grandparents.  Living in this reality is hard to appreciate fully.  For Tim and his wife, there surely had to be no shortage of shame that they had to endure.  Of course, for Bart, it was inescapable.  He was a living cautionary tale, a reminder that God’s wrath is ready to unload at any moment.  What does this do to a person’s sense of self?  How does it affect hope and resiliency? To be looked at and told – day after day – that your life is evidence of God’s uncaring – and yet you require the help of these sometimes-unwittingly-cruel people for your very survival. Unbearable.  Can you imagine the level of despair?  What did it require of him to even raise his voice to ask for help?  What courage to make it an urgent request?  What strength to yell loud enough to get over the crowd all the way to Jesus’ ears?  What risk to ask for such specific healing – he could have simply asked for a handout. 

     We’re going to take a deeper look at Bart and ourselves next week.  But for now, here are some questions to consider: What has been your “blindness” to endure which caused self-doubt, a crisis of faith, and perhaps was even made worse by cultural voices?  How did your “blindness” mess with your self-esteem and confidence?  How about your outlook on life?  Your hope?  Your view of God? Your view of how God relates to you? What is holding you back from voices your desire for healing to God? What levels of impact do you think Jesus’ healing had on Bart?

     Jericho Crowd.  The regular folks of Jericho were no doubt well acquainted with Bart and those like him who begged for their survival.  While Bart’s very existence suggests that they cared at least as much as necessary for his sustenance is hopeful – they didn’t kill their wounded.  Yet we get a sense from their recorded response that they were weary of the problems Bart represented.  What a burden he was on their fine community.  What a blight to our city’s entrance – can’t we move them to a dark corner near the city dump where nobody has to deal with them? Perhaps we could create a neighborhood just for them – not in anyone’s backyard, mind you, since that would ruin property values and certainly would drive up crime!  What a pain these people are!  God doesn’t even favor them – why should we?  Strange things happen when we let our thoughts run away from us, especially if those thoughts favor our preconceived biases.  This was not the first time that community members hushed Bart – I think we can be sure of that.  Undoubtedly, Bart felt their stares of indignation as much as he heard them. He knew his station in life.  Yet, he had heard enough about Jesus from those who traveled through as well as from Jesus’ prior visits that it would be worth a try.  How much worse could it get for him, anyway?  What did he have to lose?

     We’re going to go deeper on the blindness of the crowd in a couple of weeks.  But for now, what are your thoughts related to these questions? Who are the blind beggars in our midst who are always seemingly in need of help for survival, who are sort of taking up space, maybe even to the point of embarrassment? How do we witness cultural voices that dehumanize these folks by identifying them more by their label than their personhood?  Why do we humans do that? What impact do you think Jesus’ healing had on their vision?  How long do you think the healing stuck?

     Jesus, Christ.  Jesus and the disciples certainly must have hung out a few days in Jericho before heading to Jerusalem.  Maybe they wanted to hit the Dead Sea Spa for a salt scrub before the “Triumphal Entry”?  There are some deeper theological reasons why we see Jesus visiting Jericho before heading to Jerusalem that we will touch on another day.  Apparently, Bart never made it onto Jesus’ radar while he was visiting.  This was the last shot (truly).  Jesus, once he heard Bart call out, stopped in his tracks.  He was not indignant.  He simply asked for the blind man to be brought before him.  What a God truth is present here!  God is always available, always patient, always willing to hear us out.  And another: Jesus asked him what he wanted.  How true this is of God!  Thank God that God doesn’t order up everything there is about me that needs help!  I wouldn’t recognize myself!  Of course, God is most recognizably able to work with us in those spaces in which we welcome God to work.  Bart could have asked for food, or money, or a new iPhone.  Instead, he took the risk and asked for the whopper: I want to see.  This is bigger than a physical healing.  There is deep spiritual healing at work here, too.  Recall that blindness was closely associated with sin and judgment.  At Jesus’ word, the blindness was gone. And, as far as that immediate audience was concerned, so was the unforgiven sin and the judgment of God.  How many people had their eyes opened that day?  How many people experienced correction and were more able to see God? How many understood grace at a whole new level?  How many no longer associated such maladies as curses from God?

     The Disciples.  Jesus’ closest followers had a front row seat when this went down.  They no doubt saw the fearful humility on Bart’s face, the disdain in the eyes of the crowd, and the compassion pouring out of Jesus’ very being.  They saw Bart’s face turn to joy upon seeing (and seeing deeply).  They saw shock on the faces in the crowd.  They saw heaven on Jesus’ face as love entered the space.  They obviously remembered the story since we’re still talking about it. I bet they talked about it, too, especially when they were faced with similar situations.  They would remember that Jesus took time to be with people – especially those who were rarely afforded an audience.  They would remember the attitude of the crowd and the courage it required of Jesus to be the presence of God under such strain.  This story informed their story, and the story of God they were devoted to share.  They would see similar faces – both of those in great pain as well as those who inflicted great pain.  They would remember Jesus, and they would imitate him.  They imitated Jesus so well that the message stuck enough to take hold and grow in the most unlikely places.  They imitated Jesus so well that in the end, those in power treated them just like Jesus: most of them were martyred.  Their dedication made an enormous difference in the world of those they healed, the broader world in which they lived, and, as the story is remembered, our world as well.

     We will go deeper into what Jesus and the disciples did in a few weeks.  For now, how do you respond to the following questions? Are you a disciple of Jesus?  What might their example mean for current day disciples? Who are the Barts who need healing in our midst?  What should we expect as we call for all Barts to draw near? At CrossWalk, we have a saying: Go Be Jesus.  What might this mean for today’s individual disciples?  What might it mean for the CrossWalk community?

Shotgun, Cup, and Baptism

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Mark 10:35–45 (NLT), James and John Request Positions of Honor

     Then James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came over and spoke to him. “Teacher,” they said, “we want you to do us a favor.”

     “What is your request?” he asked.

     They replied, “When you sit on your glorious throne, we want to sit in places of honor next to you, one on your right and the other on your left.”

     But Jesus said to them, “You don’t know what you are asking! Are you able to drink from the bitter cup of suffering I am about to drink? Are you able to be baptized with the baptism of suffering I must be baptized with?”

     “Oh yes,” they replied, “we are able!”

     Then Jesus told them, “You will indeed drink from my bitter cup and be baptized with my baptism of suffering. But I have no right to say who will sit on my right or my left. God has prepared those places for the ones he has chosen.”

     When the ten other disciples heard what James and John had asked, they were indignant. So Jesus called them together and said, “You know that the rulers in this world lord it over their people, and officials flaunt their authority over those under them. But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must be the slave of everyone else. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

 

More than the other Gospels, Mark repeatedly shines a light on Jesus’ disciples as ones who just didn’t get it.  They seem to have a constant question mark over their heads and a deer in the headlight look in their eyes.  This week’s passage is an example of this phenomenon.

     Despite many opportunities to see and hear Jesus talking about how the Way of God is a reversal of the dominant ways of the world, they clearly showcase their struggle to understand that climbing the ladder and gaining power in ways the world employs is not how Jesus operated and is at cross-purposes with God.

     James and John thought that they were headed for Jerusalem where Jesus would eventually take the throne of power.  They wanted to claim their seat of honor before the other disciples, which would then, of course, grant them more power and honor than their friends.  This was more than calling shotgun on the way to the car before your siblings or friends thought of it.  Their ascent meant something significant to their brothers.

     The model of success that still rules the day is one whereby you ascend the ladder of success, gaining greater title and power and usually with it increased wealth and privilege.  Sometimes that rise honors all those lower on the ladder.  Much of the time it does not. James and John wanted exactly what the world shaped them to pursue.  It is easy to shake our finger at them and be a little embarrassed for them as well.

     I wonder when they hatched the plan.  How many sermons did they tune out, how many obvious signs of the counter-cultural Way did they miss as they dreamt of the day to come when they would get to rule over others (even if in a benevolent sort of way)? Were they at all aware that they were struggling?  Probably not.  Were the other disciples in the same struggle?  Of course.  Were they upset, then, that James and John simply called “shotgun” before they thought of it?  Maybe so, which is why Jesus had to set things straight. Again. 

The reality is that we are all human like James and John, having been shaped by the inescapable cultural forces in our place in time and space.The question is whether we are willing to notice those forces and wonder how they contrast with the invitation to be live the Way of Christ.The ways of the world lead to more of the same.The Way of Christ leads to life for all.Shalom.What everybody truly desires for life and the world.How are you managing the tension?

The Camel and the Needle

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     When people think of high-pressure sales, there are a few scenarios that usually come to mind.  Time shares, cars, and vacuum cleaners.  Unfortunately, some pastors have pressured people into supporting churches financially.  A lot of pressure.  I know because I used to be one of those pastors.  This week’s text was a supporting text for the sales pitch.  Reluctant to give some of your money – or a lot of it – to the church?  You may be forfeiting the Kingdom of God, which some assume may be heaven itself.  How’s that for pressure? I’ve got a handful of ugly stories I could share.  Sorry!  But I have grown out of it.

     There is a whole lot of ugly in interpreting the text in this way (even though it feels like the very thing Jesus is shooting for).  Viewing the text as such supports manipulation, and it reinforces a paradigm that more aligns with the human condition than the nature of God.  The rich guy clearly had a transactional view of faith: we do our part and God does God’s part; we do the right things, and God will love us.  This is not the Good News Jesus taught. God does not love us based on our performance or behavior.  God loves everyone unconditionally, longs for people to flourish in their lives, and trusts that as people experience more and more of the love of God, loving behavior toward God, themselves, and others will follow.

     Does Jesus’ instruction include us?  Are we supposed to cash out and embrace communal living?  Good news!  No!  This direction was specific to this rich guy because it was obvious to Jesus that he had a bit of idolatry at work in his heart. Being rich in that day and age was problematic.  It almost certainly meant that he in some way neglected the wellbeing of others around him which, of course, would be to also neglect the call to love God and our neighbors as ourselves.  Regardless of what his lips were saying, he worshipped money.  The invitation to give full trust to God instead of his money seems extreme to us, but perhaps we should appreciate that Jesus was calling this guy’s bluff and correct bad theology at the same time.

     Perhaps, however, we do need to come alongside and make sure we aren’t missing something. Human beings have a love-hate relationship with money.  We love money, and we sort of hate that about ourselves because we know that the Bible is right – the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil. Usually, the ones with the most money work pretty hard to ensure that it stays that way.  Culturally, statistics bear this out.  Over the last several decades, the average income of the working class has remained flat, while the wealthiest 10% of our population experienced a 20% increase, and the wealthiest 1% a 30% increase during that same time period.  And it’s not because those who work aren’t producing. In fact, production is up significantly – today’s worker produces much more than previous generations. What has happened is that those with money and power are able to craft the rules to benefit themselves.  This comes via ways to protect their assets and limit their taxes – things which are simply not available to regular, everyday people.  So, let us continue to be angry at the top 1%, and pray that Jeff Bezos may one day pay a dollar or two of income tax like the rest of us.

     Closer to home, however, there may be a more relevant issue to consider.  The intimation of the context is that the rich guy was not known for his generosity toward others, which is why the instruction was too difficult to swallow.  Jesus is really teaching into a broader issue: what does it mean to be a person who strives to follow the Way of faith?  In short, when we are grounded and founded in the love of God, we more naturally love what God loves.  The idea was never that we pick up a long list of ultimatums, but rather that we grow into a way of life that is in lockstep with God.  Over the past few weeks, we have seen Jesus standing up for the underdogs.  Here, he shines a light on the poor who are almost always powerless to improve their situation. They need those who “have” to help them who “have not”.  God draws especially close to underdogs because they often need it most. The question we have been asked is do we care? If so, is that care reflected in the way we steward our money?  It turns out God is interested in economics on all levels.  How we spend our money tells a story. How much we give to help others is one indicator of our hearts’ alignment with God.

     Sometimes we tell ourselves that we would do more if we had more.  This makes us feel better. Sometimes, however, this isn’t very honest because there might be areas we can tighten up so that we can do more for those who are vulnerable.  Sometimes we are called to sacrifice for others.  When it is born out love it is a beautiful thing.  When it is born out of obligation or transaction, there is always something lacking.

     How are you doing in this area of your life?  Do you give thinking it will somehow trigger blessings from God?  Do you realize what that implies?  How has your love of God and natural love of others made its way into your budget? Are there any areas that need to be addressed?  

     Related side note...  Thank you for the support you provide for CrossWalk.  We can be a beacon of hope and help for many people in Napa because of your generosity.  We want to move forward, faster, which depends on strong support.  We appreciate any help you can give.  Yet God will love you – and so will CrossWalk – even if you don’t!

 

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Twentieth Week after Pentecost (Year B): Mark 10:17-31

Check out SALT’s “Strange New World” podcast episode on this passage, “Understanding Jesus - Part Five: The Camel and the Needle.”

Big Picture:

1) This is the seventh week of a twelve-week chronological walk through several chapters in the Gospel of Mark.

2) Jesus has been teaching his disciples about what it means to follow him: tapping into the deeper physics of love and humility, being a “servant of all,” making peace with friends and enemies, viewing cultural institutions (like marriage and divorce) through the lens of serving the most vulnerable — and now, in this week’s reading, sharing economic resources with people in need.

3) Not surprisingly, since it includes Jesus’ directive to “sell what you own, and give the money to the poor,” this passage has been one of the most controversial — and most, um, “creatively” interpreted — in Christian history. Monastics point to it as the basis for a monk’s vow to poverty. Others insist Jesus only meant his advice to apply to the rich man himself; or only to the extremely rich; or only to a special inner circle of followers. Still others argue that Jesus’ real concern here is “attachment” to wealth, not the mere possession of it; or that the story is meant to underscore that salvation comes not from human feats of piety, much less from material resources, but rather from God’s grace alone. Each of these options has merit — and yet, as we’ll see below, each fails to do full justice to the story. Indeed, the story resists reduction to any simple formula: it’s a challenging, haunting, and distinctive episode, not least because it’s the only one in which Jesus calls someone to follow him and gets turned down.

4) Some stories include teachings that are informative and instructive. Others mark out the boundaries of a kind of “squared circle” (an old name for a wrestling ring), a space for grappling with important principles and how they may or may not apply in our everyday lives. This story is a “squared circle” story: its upshot isn’t to settle the issue of how faith relates to money, but rather to provide us with a framework within which we can wrestle it out, again and again, over the course of our lives.

5) One excellent backdrop against which to read this passage is theologian David Bentley Hart’s remarkable short essay on the early church’s economic life, “Are Christians Supposed to Be Communists?” His answer to this question, by the way, is both No and Yes. Worth a read!

Scripture:

1) Jesus is “on the way” (another possible translation of the key phrase in Mark 10:17). Specifically, as Mark later makes clear, he is on the way to Jerusalem, and ultimately on the way to Golgotha (Mark 10:32-34). And more broadly, he’s traveling the path of Christian life, the way of discipleship, bearing in mind that “The Way” was one of the earliest names for the movement (see, e.g., Acts 9:219:9). In other words, for Mark, the dialogue with the rich man is fundamentally about what it means to follow Jesus.

2) There’s a lot packed in to the man’s question: “Good Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?” First, the man runs up and kneels before Jesus, an unusual approach and posture for a theological discussion; in Mark, running-up-and-kneeling is more typical of those urgently asking for healing (see, e.g., Mark 1:405:6;5:33) — so we should interpret the man as profoundly struggling in some way. Second, his question presupposes that “eternal life” is inherited by those who have “done” certain things (“What must I do...?”), presumably those who have acted in “good” and righteous ways. And yet Jesus rejects precisely this presupposition in his correction of how the man addresses him: “No one is good but God alone.” On one level, Jesus is saying, Don’t call me “Good Teacher” — but his deeper point is to challenge the question’s premise and the man’s preoccupation, as if to say, You’re looking at this in the wrong way: salvation isn’t a sport in which those who are “good” win the prize. Only God is good. Salvation isn’t earned. You can’t rely on your own efforts, your own “doing” (“What must I do?”), your own resources, your own “goodness.” Salvation is a gift from God, unearned, undeserved, and free!

3) “You lack one thing,” Jesus says, an ironic remark to a man who, with his “many possessions,” ostensibly lacks for nothing. But what exactly is the “one thing” he lacks? Is it moral virtue, the ethical standing that arguably comes from selling everything and giving the proceeds to the poor? Perhaps…but if that were true, if this selling-and-giving were simply the good and right thing for human beings to do, we might expect Jesus to recommend it not only to this man but to the crowds as well, or at least to his disciples — but Jesus doesn’t do that. It’s true that the disciples do give up what they own, leaving behind their boats and nets by the shore, but they don’t sell everything and give the proceeds to the poor. 

4) So if it isn’t moral virtue the man lacks — what is it? Perhaps the clue is the opening exchange about “goodness.” Perhaps the man, preoccupied with “doing good” so as to achieve his own salvation, trusts too much in his own resources, material and otherwise (“What must I do…?”). Perhaps what he lacks is trust in God, who is, after all, the ultimate source of all goodness and salvation. This interpretation would help explain at least two things in the story: first, why the commandments he has followed “since my youth” are the neighbor-oriented commands (5-10 of the Decalogue), not the more explicitly God-oriented ones (1-4 in the Decalogue), suggesting, perhaps, a lack of trust in God; and second, why relinquishing wealth is the specific remedy Jesus prescribes, since that would help dispel the man’s illusion of self-sufficiency and afford him a more vivid, tangible experience of depending on God.

5) On the other hand, however, it’s worth noting that Jesus doesn’t call the man to simply walk away from his possessions, or to burn them in a bonfire, but rather to share their value with neighbors in need. Accordingly, perhaps the “one thing” he lacks is generosity: the joyful sharing of blessings with others. Indeed, one of wealth’s hazards is that it can cut people off from genuine, kind-hearted participation in community, which is to say, from living a fully human life.

6) Whether we interpret the “one thing” the man lacks as trust in God, communal generosity, or both (since these “lacks” are often two symptoms of the same ailment: self-centeredness), one temptation is let ourselves off the material hook. The point here, we tell ourselves, is really about trust and generosity, not about selling everything we own! So yes, by all means, let us become less self-centered — but when it comes to our possessions, well, there’s no need to get carried away...  But again, the story resists this kind of rationalization. If possessions are a corrupting barrier for this man (and indeed for the disciples, who also left everything behind in order to follow Jesus) — why wouldn’t they also be corrupting barriers for us? If this man lacked trust in God, or generosity to his neighbors — are we really so sure we don’t lack these things, too? In short, if Jesus framed the life of first-century discipleship in startlingly material terms, as a way of life with concrete economic aspects — why would twenty-first-century discipleship be any different?

7) In the ancient world (as in many circles today), wealth was widely considered a sign of divine blessing, which is why the disciples are so taken aback when Jesus declares that it’s “easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God” (Mark 10:25). “Then who can be saved?” they incredulously ask, as if to say, If even they, the apparently blessed, cannot be saved — who can be? Jesus’ reply makes two points at once: first, that the apparent blessings of wealth are actually more like hazardous obstacles; and second, that while such obstacles can seem to put the kingdom of God out of reach, “for God all things are possible” (Mark 10:27).

Takeaways:

1) Jesus’ call to “sell what you own, and give the money to the poor” isn’t a one-size-fits-all command meant for everyone — if it were, he would have announced it more broadly, starting with his disciples. Instead, there’s something about this particular man that gives rise to Jesus’ advice: perhaps his preoccupation with his own efforts and resources, betraying a lack of trust in God as the source of salvation; or perhaps his lack of generosity with regard to others in need; or indeed, perhaps both. Pious and earnest as he is, he’s nevertheless self-centered, oriented away from both God and neighbor.

2) But if the call to “sell and give” isn’t for everyone, it could still be for us. We shouldn’t be quick to declare immunity; the rich man’s malady may be a condition for which we, too, require healing. And in any case, for Jesus (and for Mark), discipleship has significant economic consequences that demand to be taken seriously. Peter’s contention that the disciples have done at least part of what the rich man refused to do (Hey, we left everything and followed you!) is evidence enough that Mark believes the economic consequences of the Gospel apply to more than just this one rich man (Mark 10:28-31). 

3) But there’s plenty of other evidence as well: as the Book of Acts has it, the earliest Christian communities sold their assets, pooled the proceeds and “held them in common,” distributing them “to each as any had need” (Acts 4:32-35). Mark’s community shared a similar ethos, valuing a communal form of economic life for which many “left everything” in order to follow Jesus (Mark 10:28). Private wealth, then, had no place in this form of life, and significant private wealth was for many — here the rich man is Exhibit A — an impediment to joining the movement. Accordingly, for Christians today living in a world riven by increasing economic inequality, this challenging, haunting story pushes us to confront just what the economic dimensions of the Gospel might look like in our lives. In short, the church is called to be not just a “holy” community, not just a “moral” community, but a decidedly economic community as well, a movement following a savior who insisted again and again that faith and money are sides of one coin, not two.

4) The good news of the Gospel in this week’s passage is that God’s grace, not our own efforts at being “good,” is the source of salvation; that Jesus “looks at us and loves us” (Mark 10:21), and so invites us to move beyond concerns with our own inheritance and focus instead on sharing our resources with others in need; and that God seeks to transform even and especially our economic lives into beautiful, humane, generative patterns of love and grace. In the end, human beings are economic creatures; we are more than economic, of course, but not less! And so it only makes sense that God’s salvation would include definite effects on our economic form of life, just as it did for the earliest disciples. As we struggle together to figure out what those economic effects might be, we can take heart that Jesus sees us, and loves us, and calls us forward — and above all, that “for God, all things are possible.”

 

Mark 10:17-31 (MSG)

As he went out into the street, a man came running up, greeted him with great reverence, and asked, "Good Teacher, what must I do to get eternal life?"

     Jesus said, "Why are you calling me good? No one is good, only God. You know the commandments: Don't murder, don't commit adultery, don't steal, don't lie, don't cheat, honor your father and mother."

     He said, "Teacher, I have—from my youth—kept them all!"

     Jesus looked him hard in the eye—and loved him! He said, "There's one thing left: Go sell whatever you own and give it to the poor. All your wealth will then be heavenly wealth. And come follow me."

     The man's face clouded over. This was the last thing he expected to hear, and he walked off with a heavy heart. He was holding on tight to a lot of things, and not about to let go.

Looking at his disciples, Jesus said, "Do you have any idea how difficult it is for people who 'have it all' to enter God's kingdom?" The disciples couldn't believe what they were hearing, but Jesus kept on: "You can't imagine how difficult. I'd say it's easier for a camel to go through a needle's eye than for the rich to get into God's kingdom."

     That set the disciples back on their heels. "Then who has any chance at all?" they asked.

Jesus was blunt: "No chance at all if you think you can pull it off by yourself. Every chance in the world if you let God do it."

     Peter tried another angle: "We left everything and followed you."

     Jesus said, "Mark my words, no one who sacrifices house, brothers, sisters, mother, father, children, land—whatever—because of me and the Message will lose out. They'll get it all back, but multiplied many times in homes, brothers, sisters, mothers, children, and land—but also in troubles. And then the bonus of eternal life! This is once again the Great Reversal: Many who are first will end up last, and the last first."

Lessons from Another ET

Note: You can watch this teaching on CrossWalk’s YouTube channel.

In 1982, the world received a gift from Steven Spielberg, E.T.: The Extra Terrestrial.  It became the highest grossing film of the 1980’s and is an enduring classic.  Take a second and think about the film.  What do you remember about it?  What lines have stuck with culture? What image captures the film in our memory?

     Given that the film features an alien from another planet, it is easy to put the movie onto the Sci-Fi shelf in our brains.  As interesting as ET was, however, it was about much more than a visitor from outer space.  Ten-year-old Elliott Taylor was the fortunate boy who discovered and eventually befriended the alien and helped him get back home.  Elliott’s parents had divorced, and he felt like he was all alone in another world.  E.T. the alien, and E.T., the boy, were both in need of friendship and support as they figured out how to get back home.  The movie is really about that, which also happens to be about an alien from another planet who really did come in peace.  To focus too much time on the Sci-Fi aspect of the film would be a massive exercise in missing the point of the film. This was a film about being lost, finding friendship, and finding one’s way home.

     Sometimes we do the same thing with scripture.  We read a text and it seems so obvious to us what it is about that we just go one our merry way.  Sometimes, however, what seems like the point of a text after a casual glance isn’t really accurate.  While we could keep on walking and stick with our assumptions, we may be missing the whole intent of a particular text.  This week provides a great example for us to consider: one scene about divorce and another about children.  Both need contextualizing in order to be fully appreciated and relevantly applied.

     The divorce exchange was a test posed by the Jewish religious leaders in an attempt to get Jesus in trouble.  The word “should” is a huge giveaway on that.  The Pharisees already knew that there was legal precedent that allowed for divorce dating back to very early legal codes with ancient Judaism.  They weren’t really concerned about answering the legal question that had already been settled and was well known.  They were wanting him to say out loud, in public, that people shouldn’t get divorced.  They likely already knew that that was his interpretation because of his close association with John the Baptist.  They were probably hoping that Jesus would suffer a similar fate as Jesus.  The governor of the region in which Jesus did his ministry was Herod Antipas, who found himself in a public scandal when he married his brother’s ex-wife.  His new wife became available by divorcing from his brother.  The only reason she divorced his brother was to marry Herod.  When John the Baptist openly challenged it – voicing the opinion of most of the people under his rule – he found himself eventually arrested and killed.  Perhaps if Jesus took the same stance in public, he would be out of the picture, too.  It wasn’t just Herod, though, who seemed to ruffle the feathers of ordinary Jewish folks.  Religious leaders themselves had gained the reputation for doing the same thing, divorcing their wives, trading them in for a newer model.  Both Herod and the Pharisees were trying to get away with what they could given the legal options afforded them.  Their casual, callous actions were an afront to a much deeper concern that Jesus addressed that is still relevant today.

     Instead of engaging in a legal debate, Jesus focused the attention on the original idea of marriage as a covenant of union, a picture of what the God-human relationship was supposed to look like: two persons choosing to commit to each other, to love one another, serve one another, look out for one another, sacrifice for one another, submit to one another, through thick and thin for the rest of their lives.  In reminding the disciples of what the original intent was supposed to be, those who had violated that intent were easily recognized.  The more accurate way to frame the question Jesus was handling would be something like this: should someone treat their covenant casually, to the point that they abandon the hard work required of true union in favor of an easy out?  To that, Jesus would say “no”.

     God hates divorce, of course, just like everyone on the planet.  It represents dashed dreams, brokenness, severed union, and generally a lot of pain and suffering.  Yet divorce was allowed in the Jewish legal code because it really, really needed to be there – and was “endorsed” by God.  Why?  Because humanity.  Things don’t always go perfectly in myriad ways, from people choosing to grow apart rather than closer together, to one partner not engaging as much as the other, to substance abuse, domestic violence, and more.  Divorce needs to be available because “humanity”.  God hates all that it means, yet God – I am certain – favors it over marriages that really need to be dissolved.  However, I don’t believe God is in favor of entering into marriage or divorce lightly, which is really the issue Jesus was addressing.  Jesus is drawing attention to a higher view of life and living – according to the Way of God and not the ways of the world.

     Unfortunately, this passage has been weaponized against divorced people, and particularly against women who were not equal players in the ancient world.  Women were, for the most part, deeply dependent on their fathers or husbands for their wellbeing.  Getting remarried after divorce was very difficult.  For those Jewish leaders to cast their wives by the side of the road with divorce was tantamount to them sentencing their ex’s to extreme poverty.  That was an injustice and still is.  Even today, women fare much worse than men on the whole in terms of financial security when divorce hits.  This is due in part to the fact that there is still a wage gap between men and women, and in cases where kids are involved, women more often than men in various ways choose to tap the brakes on their careers to raise their kids.  That’s many years of not-as-focused career development, which results in lower income and less benefits. This passage, therefore, while it is about choosing the higher Way of God is also about protecting those who were most likely to be victimized by choosing the lesser way: vulnerable women and children.

     Mark’s Gospel then has Jesus in a teaching environment, interrupted by kids.  The disciples, in true ways-of-the-world fashion, shooed them away, which ticked Jesus off.  This may have surprised the disciples who thought they were honoring Jesus and his audience by protecting his capacity to teach well.  What’s happening here?  Picture the scene.  If kids are present while he is teaching and being with people, who else is likely present?  Their mothers.  While Jesus is okay with the presence of kids – more than okay as you’ll soon realize – their being there meant their moms were, too – which was not usually afforded to women in that time.

     The greater concern that Jesus raised, however, has to do with our determining who is worthy of being in the room and who is not.  We have reason to believe that the romantic notions we have about children and their “welcome everywhere” were not as prevalent then as now.  In fact, children, in terms of social mores, were not welcome in such places and seen as undeserving to be in the room.  They didn’t deserve to be there.  That’s the major point Jesus wanted to drive home here.  The disciples were steeped in meritocracy, where we earn the right to be in the room, especially if that room was God’s.  That’s not how God sees it.  God welcomes everyone, especially those who do not feel worthy.  Does this mean God favors some more than others?  No, it means that people who feel unworthy need to hear that how they feel about themselves, or how the world feels about them, is not how God feels.  That’s why paying attention to individuals and people groups that are treated as second class citizens is key to ushering in the Kingdom of God and being faithful Jesus followers: we are announcing and embodying a different Way that is opposed to the tit-for-tat culture that reigns supreme.

     To welcome the child is counter-cultural and unnerving to all involved.  Identifying as children before God, for the disciples, would be a decision to embrace the truly radical truth that we are loved and accepted not because of anything we have done, but because the nature of God is loving acceptance.  A better example in our culture may be a homeless person or a refugee who is utterly dependent on others for survival.  Our culture celebrates independence as the sure sign of success, and attributes failure to those who are less so.  Jesus is saying that in our understanding of our standing with God, we need to embrace the image of being a dependent of God.  Because we are.

     Steven Spielberg was doing more than creating a lovely film – he was telling his own story.  He himself had grown up in a suburb with parents who divorced, which left him reeling.  He was in many ways sharing key understanding from his own journey – a message that needed to be heard because it resonates with so many.  A message hidden in plain view.  So it is with the scriptures.  So much wisdom from the Spirit of God worked out through the remembered stories, all wanting us to hear truly Good News: there is another way which is rooted in the Source of all that is.  That Way leads us home if we will recognize it and choose it. A Way that is deeper than the worlds’ ways, and a Way that keeps our tendency to elevate ourselves over others in check.  It is a Way of truly loving our neighbor as well as ourselves.  May it be so for all of us.

 

Questions...

  1. How is the core teaching of these two scenes different than what you may have initially thought? What was your experience like of that discovery?

  2. In your own words, what do you think Jesus was trying to communicate to his audience(s) originally?  How do you think Jesus might apply his teaching today?  What might be the subjects he would address in our time and culture?

  3. Where in your life do you feel the tension between the ways of the world and the Way of the Spirit of God?  What is the issue?  How would you describe the contrast between the way of the world and the Way of Jesus?  What do you sense God inviting you toward?  What makes it tough?  What about it is compelling? What might the outcomes be depending on which way you choose?

  4. Given that the Way of the Spirit of God is different from the ways of the world, courage is always required on some level.  Remember that there exists a great cloud of witnesses cheering you on, whispering in your ear, “Take the risk! The Spirit is all there really is – you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!”

Commentary from SaltProject.org

Nineteenth Week after Pentecost (Year B): Mark 10:2-16

Big Picture:

1) This is the sixth week of a twelve-week chronological walk through several chapters in the Gospel of Mark.

2) Jesus has been teaching his disciples about being “servants of all,” including children (despite their lack of power or status) and religious outsiders (despite their apparent threat as “competitors”). In both cases, Jesus turns the conventional notion of “service” on its head: a servant typically works for someone more powerful than she is, and what’s more, her service is typically reserved for those within the fold, not external rivals. For Jesus, however, being a “servant of all” means caring not only for “insiders,” but also — and especially — for relatively powerless outsiders, the left out and left behind. And in this week’s passage, Jesus continues to develop this theme of serving the vulnerable, this time in the context of marriage and divorce.

3) It’s crucially important to start here: In first century Palestine, marriage and divorce were profoundly patriarchal institutions in which women and children were technically considered the property of men. By contrast, in ancient Roman society, both husbands and wives could initiate divorce, and there’s evidence that at least some Jewish wives could, too — but in the main, Jewish law traditionally gave that power to husbands, as Deuteronomy 24:1-4 makes clear. The proper grounds for divorce, however, were a matter of considerable dispute in Jesus’ day. Some taught that only adultery could trigger divorce (Jesus himself takes this view in Matthew 19:9); others followed Deuteronomy’s broader standard that anything “objectionable about her” — that is, objectionable to the husband — could suffice (Deut 24:1). Moreover, women and their children were highly dependent on marriage for their livelihood and wellbeing, and this dependence, combined with their husbands’ ability to initiate divorce, put women and children in an acutely vulnerable position. To understand Jesus’ teaching on divorce, we have to bear this first-century Near Eastern context in mind. Who is vulnerable in this picture? Women and children.

4) Though Jesus seems to issue a straightforward, blanket prohibition against divorce in this passage, once we start to dig in, important complexities emerge. First, as we have seen along the way in Mark, Jesus often speaks in striking, hyperbolic terms in order to provoke his listeners, and to convey his ideas in bold brush strokes. (This is a rabbi who’s just said, “If your eye causes you to stumble, tear it out” — not someone to take too literally! (Mark 9:47))  Second, since our twenty-first-century context is so different than his first-century one, we’re wise to focus less on statutory details and more on underlying principles. Third, it’s worth noting that many of the earliest Christian communities didn’t take a categorical view of divorce. Matthew (likely writing shortly after Mark) includes an adultery exception (Matthew 19:9); Paul (writing shortly after Jesus’ death) also permits divorce in certain circumstances (1 Cor 7:15). Fourth, Jesus’ teaching — in this passage and elsewhere — often showcases a relatively supple, principle-oriented understanding of how the law works in practice. In this story, for example, he substantively reframes Deuteronomy 24:1-4, thereby casting the law as adaptable; and he explains that Moses permits divorce “because of your hardness of heart,” thereby casting the law as sensitive to human weakness (Mark 10:5). Indeed, one of Jesus’ signature ideas is that, in difficult cases, the law should be flexibly interpreted for the sake of human flourishing: the law was made for humanity, not humanity for the law (see, e.g., Mark 2:27). And fifth, as we’ll see below, a close reading of this passage reveals that Jesus isn’t actually interested in categorically prohibiting divorce, but rather in positioning it as a last resort.

Scripture:

1) Some Pharisees ask Jesus if divorce is lawful, in order “to test him” — but why would this be a test? Perhaps because the issue was divisive enough that any answer Jesus gives will be unpopular. Or perhaps they have another kind of trap in mind: the only other (implicit) reference to divorce in the Gospel of Mark is the story of Herod and Herodias, in which John the Baptizer criticizes their marriage as “not lawful” — no doubt at least partly because Herodias had to divorce Herod’s brother first (Mark 6:18). In other words, the question may be a “test” because of its potential to lure Jesus into criticizing Herod — a move that didn’t turn out too well for John!

2) Turning the tables, Jesus has his questioners answer their own question — and they reply, Yes, divorce is lawful, citing Deuteronomy 24:1-4. Now, the central point of that ancient text is to prohibit people from remarrying each other for a second time, after the wife’s been married to someone else in the interim. But along the way, the passage conjures up a world of common and capricious divorce, with men simply deciding that “she does not please him,” or finding “something objectionable about her,” and then ending the marriage (Deut 24:1). To this patriarchal ethos of divorce on-(male)-demand, Jesus objects. He reframes Deuteronomy’s permission as an accommodation to human “hardness of heart” (Mark 10:5). God’s original vision for marriage, Jesus insists, is that two people are inseparably joined and become “one flesh” (Mark 10:8Gen 2:24). Likewise, privately with his disciples, Jesus equates remarriage with adultery — strikingly phrasing his teaching in egalitarian terms, as though both men and women have equal agency: “...divorces his wife...divorces her husband…” (Mark 10:11-12).

3) Is this a categorical prohibition of divorce? On one level, Jesus is clearly critical of divorce in this passage, contrasting it with the divine ideal of becoming “one flesh.” But on the other hand, it’s striking that he draws this contrast without declaring Deuteronomy’s permission null and void. He doesn’t say, Moses was mistaken. Nor does he say, The divorce described in Deuteronomy is no longer valid. Rather, he effectively says, What Moses says about divorce is well and good, but don’t forget: it’s an accommodation to human weakness, not an expression of the divine ideal. On the contrary, God’s ideal vision for marriage is that it entails becoming “one flesh,” two people who care for each other to such an intimate, life-giving degree that they become one, and they cannot be torn asunder. Don’t take that vision lightly. Strive toward it as best you can, and reserve divorce as a last resort. And to men, in particular, who might be tempted to take advantage of Moses’ words, “she does not please him” or “something objectionable about her” — think again! God calls you not to be selfish, entitled, and cavalier, but rather to be humble, to serve your spouse, and to serve your children.

4) As it turns out, then, Jesus’ view isn’t a categorical prohibition of divorce, but rather a prohibition of cavalier, contemptuous forms of divorce and tearing asunder. Deuteronomy’s permission still stands — though it’s properly understood, Jesus contends, in light of the divine ideal outlined “from the beginning of creation” (Mark 10:6). That ideal is this: two married people becoming “bone of each other’s bone, and flesh of each other’s flesh,” caring for each other as though they are caring for themselves. It’s how many people picture an ideal partnership — and it’s what many couples aspire to, even when it doesn’t come to pass. What’s more, lifting up this ideal is perfectly consistent with the notion that a marriage sadly falling far short of it, a marriage that creates more harm than good, is indeed rightly ended. But Jesus wants to ensure that our default position is to strive for the “one flesh” ideal — with divorce reserved as a last resort, to be used not when, say, “she does not please him,” but rather when the partnership becomes injurious to one or both partners.

5) Why does Jesus insist upon striving for the “bone of my bone,” “one flesh” ideal? Marriage isn’t for everyone, but for many people, a lifelong intimate partnership can be a key source of growth and happiness. And just as important, in the ancient world marriages could create sanctuaries of livelihood and wellbeing for women and children — and conversely, divorces could put women and children out into harm’s way. Here lies the deep kinship between Jesus’ teaching on divorce and his practice of welcoming children: Jesus is always specially concerned with protecting and advocating for the most vulnerable. And not only because they are exposed to harm! Children, he says, can be open-minded, open-hearted, and therefore receptive to God’s blessings in exemplary ways. The rest of us should follow their lead: “Whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will never enter it” (Mark 10:15). 

Takeaways:

1) For many, the good news of the Gospel in this passage is that Jesus does not condemn divorce categorically, but rather positions it as a last resort. This may be received as good news both by many whose lives have been affected by divorce, and at the same time, by many who value marital commitment as something to strive to preserve. 

2) The challenge of the Gospel in this passage is that God’s ideal vision for marriage — and by extension, any lifelong partnership — is of an intimate, inseparable bond, a union in which two people become “one flesh,” caring for each other as if caring for themselves, and thereby a sacramental training ground for caring for the wider world. This ideal vision can be an inspiring, daunting challenge. What does it look and feel like to be “one flesh”? What practical wisdom, what best practices might help along the way? Imagine hearing testimony and advice from people in longstanding partnerships, from various generations, about this important subject...

3) And finally, for married and unmarried people alike, the good news of the Gospel in this passage is that God cares especially for the most vulnerable, and calls us to do the same. Jesus evaluates social institutions (like marriage and divorce) through this lens, and he sees social groups (like children or outsiders) through it, too. Such groups deserve respect and protection, of course, but it’s also true that their wisdom and perspective deserve attention — not least because of what they can teach the wider community about faith, love, and “receiving the kingdom of God” (Mark 10:15).

Deconstructing Hell, Reconstructing God

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This week’s texts from the Lectionary give us much to chew on and an opportunity to revisit our hermeneutical approach to studying biblical text (fancy speech for how we understand what the original text meant to the original audience in context, and our method of applying it to our present context).  Here are some of my thoughts...

     Hermeneutic.  God didn’t write the Bible. God doesn’t have hands to hold quills, pens, or click keyboards.  God does work in cooperation with human beings. The Spirit of God is always present everywhere in everything working toward shalom – wellbeing and harmony for all, including creation itself.  The Bible was written by thoughtful, prayerful, faithful people trying to express their experience and beliefs about God.  God was surely expressly invited into that process, and the writers were no doubt trying their best to be responsive to the nudges of the Spirit with every jot and tittle.  The writers wrote from their context, which included their worldview formed by all the life experience they brought to the table.  The fact that what these writers wrote was added to the collection of texts that formed the canon – the standard – means that the collective community believed that the writings were aligned with held beliefs and worthy of study.  It doesn’t mean that the writings were perfect.  Also, none of the biblical texts were originally written in English.  The Old Testament was written in Hebrew.  The New Testament in Greek.  Jesus spoke Aramaic – a form of Hebrew – which was eventually translated into Greek.  Hebrew and Aramaic don’t always translate well into Greek.  Greek words sometimes have multiple meanings and don’t easily translate into English, which is why we have so many English translations of the Bible.  Sometimes those original words are loaded with meaning that are lost on us unless we study them carefully.  Sometimes errant translations become so comfortable that we assume they must be correct even if they are not.  The challenge of biblical study is to see all of this as clearly as possible to limit the misinterpretation and misapplication of what the writer is trying to communicate to us.  This process is called our hermeneutical approach to the study of biblical text. Simple. ;)

     Others.  The disciples saw someone who was not a card-carrying member of the Jesus community doing Jesus-related stuff.  Oh no!  What was their reaction?  How dare they!  Who do they think they are?  We are the only ones authorized to do Jesus-related stuff!  I find this so interesting and a bit humiliating as the same dynamics are still in play today.  Unfortunately, I have been guilty of the same reaction, especially in my earlier years, when I viewed Christianity and my role as a pastor differently than I do now. I used to be more concerned with who had the “most right” beliefs and therefore who was most right!  Interestingly, I somehow always found myself in the “most right” camp!  One unfortunate byproduct of this orientation is that it lends itself toward protectionism and even efforts to disenfranchise those who disagree with the “most right” camp, even if they are simply another perspective within Christianity!  God help me!  God forgive me.

     Jesus’ response, of course, was to enlarge their puny vision.  Jesus was not really into copyrighting his stuff.  He was open to the collective embrace, understanding, and application of the Good News rather than trying to control how it should be done by everyone, everywhere.  He recognized the Spirit of God was already at work everywhere in everyone.  It wasn’t like he controlled it.  He modeled what living and responding to the Spirit looked like.  Others saw it, caught it, adopted it, and learned to live in it as well.  The Good News is that God loves us, is with us, and is for us forever. The “us” is everyone, not just “us”.  How the Spirit flows and is understood depends on who the receiver is, and thus will be expressed somewhat differently.  The flow of the Spirit will always look, sound, smell, and feel like love – that’s what we look for and celebrate!  How much lovelier would it be if churches and their leaders stopped spending time arguing about who is more right and more time celebrating where the Spirit of God is clearly at work!  Even beyond the Church and Christianity!  How cruel would God be if God was sitting on such Good News and limited its distribution to only the Church?  How many billions of people would be left out today?  It takes nothing away from Jesus or Christianity to suggest that the Spirit also speaks through other religious traditions.  Our resistance to this idea is rooted in a protectionism born from an understandably narrow rendering of the revelation of God.  Two things can be true at once: there can be distinctives taught about the Spirit that are in contradistinction to ways of thinking in the world at large, and there can be more than one source acting as a conduit for those distinctives.  I think Jesus was making just this point in this brief story.

     Hell.  The next section jumps into what appears to be an unrelated discourse (because it probably was).  The Gospel writers had their collection of stories and sayings and did the best they could to organize them.  Sometimes the flow is really good.  Sometimes, like in this passage, it isn’t.  In these middle six verses, Jesus is telling people to do whatever it takes to stop their destructive behavior, lest they experience worse consequences than they already have.  The consequence most English translations say awaits?  Hell.  Gulp!  Teach a child (wittingly or unwittingly) to carry on a sinful pattern?  Hell.  Do something with your hand that isn’t shalom?  You’re toast.  Allow your feet to take you somewhere you shouldn’t?  Get ready for some heat.  Viewing some porn?  You’re going to burn.  Youth pastors and parents and Jonathon Edwards have kept these verses in their quiver and shot their kids with them whenever errant behavior loomed.  Jesus appears to be suggesting that the consequences of a temporal, finite sin is an eternal threat of torture.  What do we make of this?  Does this make sense?

     I have taught on the subject of hell before.  I recommend two well researched books that will help you unpack the overview I am about to offer.  Rob Bell’s Love Wins woke a lot of people up to what we’re talking about here, and Donald Emmel’s Eliminating Satan and Hell both offer good scholarship and a theology that help makes sense out of this subject.  I will be featuring a special class featuring a teaching from Meghan Henning – an expert on the subject. The Jewish people didn’t really write much about life after death until roughly 300 years before Jesus was born, which is after the last book of the Old Testament was written.  Let that sink in.  They didn’t really give it much thought.  And then they did.  Why?  Scholars believe that their interest and writing were in response to a justice issue.  If God was not going to reward Israel for their faithfulness in this life, perhaps God would do so in what lies beyond the grave.  Furthermore, if God wasn’t going to mete out justice on those who worked against what God was up to in this life, perhaps God would make them pay after they died.  Some folks within ancient Judaism developed a pretty elaborate understanding of where we go after death, with four chambers – two for good folks and two for bad – depending on how you lived your life.  The good chambers were either really good and comfortable or really, really, really good and comfortable.  Similarly, the bad chambers ranged from awful to horrifying.  By the time Jesus was born, popular thought had embraced such notions of rewards and punishments after death, likely borrowing some imagery from other religious traditions.  Jesus’ parable of the rich man and Lazarus provide a good example of ancient thought.  The word hell is important to exegete in the passage we are looking at today.  The Greek word for hell in this passage is Gehenna, which is a translation from the Hebrew word Ben Hinnom.  Historically, this was the location of terrible acts of pagan worship including child sacrifice.  It was considered a horrible example of a defiled place.  Anybody with a basic understanding of Jewish history would know this, and associate it with a place where God’s covenant was violated.  An awful, unholy place.

     In past teaching, I have taught that these words refer to a valley just outside of ancient Jerusalem which was used as the city dump where trash was burned around the clock, rotting refuse was constantly being eaten by worms and maggots, leftover food and flesh would be fought over by wild dogs that would gnash their teeth at each other, and a place where the poorest of the poor who were not otherwise provided for would be disposed of here upon death, leaving their loved ones to weep tears of sorrow and shame.  Never ending fire.  Worms and maggots.  Gnashing of teeth. Constant weeping and suffering.  Sound familiar?  Sound like hell?  Yep.  I had learned and understood this to be an accurate rendering of the first century CE landscape.  I have recently learned (from Meghan Henning) that this idea was based on rabbinical writings from the medieval period when the city dump did exist in that valley.  However, there is no evidence that such a dump existed at Jesus’ time, and therefore we have to hold on loosely to that view or let it go entirely.  This is inconvenient!  Being able to explain away that Jesus really didn’t believe in an afterlife experience where some level of punishment existed was super handy.  The reality is that he used familiar rhetorical devices related to the subject of the afterlife, and that he may have believed in such a space himself – we simply cannot know. The New Testament writers do not speak with one voice or view on this, and we have to live with it. There is a lot to think about here that goes beyond the scope of this teaching.  There are good resources available to help us understand the development of thought on the afterlife. Be warned, however, that being exposed to good research may mess with your view of the Bible and how we engage and interpret it! Expect to be uncomfortable!

     What we can be sure of is that whenever Jesus used this rhetorical device, he tied it to ethical living. The point he was trying to make every time was that living in the Way mattered.  A lot.  Reckless living could lead to an early death, or it could lead to being associated with an unholy space or throwing your life away.  He wasn’t trying to make a case for a torturous afterlife, but he did assume everybody already understood the reference and used it to persuade them to live lives aligned with the Spirit of God.

     Salty BBQ.  The final saying seems tacked on because it probably was.  In the first line, Jesus is giving a word of comfort: everyone will be tested with fire.  How is that comforting?  We’re not singled out – everybody goes through hell at various points in their lives.  The last verse dealing with salt teaches something a bit different but is sort of related.  Salt, as an element, doesn’t lose its saltiness.  It can’t.  What can happen, however, is dilution.  Gypsum looks like salt but isn’t. Gypsum is the material that gives us sheetrock used in construction.  You may not be able to tell with a casual glance which is which – but you surely can tell the difference in taste!  I think what Jesus is teaching here – and why Mark put these verses together – is that we need to be careful with our lives.  What we allow in and what we keep out of our lives makes a massive difference for ourselves as well as the world.  Let too much gypsum in?  It’s like throwing your life away.  From bad ideas to unaddressed emotions to terrible choices, it all matters.  The consequences are real in this life, affect our individual life, impact the lives immediately around us and in some ways also alter all of creation.  Your life matters to more than just you.  Given the impact your life has, what are you doing with it?

 

Questions to journal through...

1.     Why do you suppose the disciples – and human beings in general – wanted to be the only ones with the authority to carry out the ministry of Jesus?  How have we seen this pattern repeated throughout history in various forms?  How has this been true of you?  What has helped you recognize this ego need and manage it better?

2.     What is it about humanity that wants hell to exist?  What kind of God would cause people to suffer a torturous eternity for committing temporal egregious acts? Where is justice in that?  If hell is off the table, why in the world would anybody want to follow in the footsteps of Jesus? If hell is off the table, what was Jesus trying to communicate with his life and teaching?

3.     What is it about humanity that allows salt to be diluted with gypsum, that which is born of the Spirit with that which is not?  When have you recognized such behavior in your own life?  What helped you see the gypsum for what it was?  What gypsum are you allowing into the mix now that will diminish the good work of the Spirit – and your very experience of life?

4.     What is the Good News Jesus was trying to proclaim?  How is that similar to the Good News that captured our hearts?  How might we make this Good News known in ways like Jesus?

 

Mark 9:38-50 (NLT)

38 John said to Jesus, “Teacher, we saw someone using your name to cast out demons, but we told him to stop because he wasn’t in our group.” 

39 “Don’t stop him!” Jesus said. “No one who performs a miracle in my name will soon be able to speak evil of me. 40 Anyone who is not against us is for us. 41 If anyone gives you even a cup of water because you belong to the Messiah, I tell you the truth, that person will surely be rewarded. 

42 “But if you cause one of these little ones who trusts in me to fall into sin, it would be better for you to be thrown into the sea with a large millstone hung around your neck. 43 If your hand causes you to sin, cut it off. It’s better to enter eternal life with only one hand than to go into the unquenchable fires of hell with two hands. 45 If your foot causes you to sin, cut it off. It’s better to enter eternal life with only one foot than to be thrown into hell with two feet. 47 And if your eye causes you to sin, gouge it out. It’s better to enter the Kingdom of God with only one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into hell, 48 ‘where the maggots never die and the fire never goes out.’ 

49 “For everyone will be tested with fire. 50 Salt is good for seasoning. But if it loses its flavor, how do you make it salty again? You must have the qualities of salt among yourselves and live in peace with each other.” 

 

James 5:13-20 (NLT)

     13 Are any of you suffering hardships? You should pray. Are any of you happy? You should sing praises. 14 Are any of you sick? You should call for the elders of the church to come and pray over you, anointing you with oil in the name of the Lord. 15 Such a prayer offered in faith will heal the sick, and the Lord will make you well. And if you have committed any sins, you will be forgiven. 

     16 Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results. 17 Elijah was as human as we are, and yet when he prayed earnestly that no rain would fall, none fell for three and a half years! 18 Then, when he prayed again, the sky sent down rain and the earth began to yield its crops. 

     19 My dear brothers and sisters, if someone among you wanders away from the truth and is brought back, 20 you can be sure that whoever brings the sinner back from wandering will save that person from death and bring about the forgiveness of many sins.

Nature Boy

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Nature Boy

The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.

 Here are some thoughts I have from this week’s texts.

 First, some nerd notes... The story of Jesus going to Tyre and Sidon (on the coast of modern-day Lebanon) is fascinating.  Jesus went there to get some time away from Galilee where he probably couldn’t escape crowds and wound up having someone find him to ask for help!  The exchange he has with the pleading mother is raw.  Jesus displays a typical response from a Jewish Rabbi to a Gentile woman, referring to her people as dogs.  While some try to smooth this over as Jesus referring to Gentiles as beloved house pets (there is no evidence to support it in the text or context), such protection of Jesus’ character does more harm than good.  Let Jesus be a human being, a Jewish man from the region of Galilee which was largely an agricultural area that shipped its goods through the ports of Tyre and Sidon.  Poor peasant farmers in Galilee knew that there were people of wealth that were fed by their labor.  They knew there was inequity, and that there was not much they could do about it. These farmers were friends of Jesus, who was a poor carpenter. This story is built on tension related to ethnicity and socioeconomic disparity.

     The pleading mother engages Jesus, who essentially rebuffs her, only to be countered in a way Jesus would normally speak.  The woman accepts the “dog” slur, but then turns it on its head, suggesting by her turn of phrase that a dog who gets crumbs from the table is welcome to do so – is welcome in that space of the family.  Jesus concedes victory to the woman and grants her request.  This isn’t really a story about exorcizing a demon from a little girl; it’s about extending compassion to someone who represents the “other”, maybe even the enemy.  The story that follows about Jesus healing a man, but given that he is in Sidon, we are to be more impressed with the extension of healing to broader parts beyond Israel more than the miracle itself.  James’ text ties in quite nicely, teaching about how favoritism – which is the way many systems in the world work – is incongruent with the way of Jesus. He moves further, saying that faith without works is dead.

     I find these two texts strangely comforting and hopeful.  The fact that Jesus extended grace to a person representing Israel’s oppressor suggests that God’s grace really is for everybody, including me, a dog waiting for crumbs.  I’ll take it!  I also “like” the fact that Jesus was fully human in this story to the point of being rude, and then being humbled by her argument and eventually conceding defeat.  The fact that James needed to write his instruction book on living out the morality of the way of Jesus means that people like me struggled back then just like we do today.  I guess we could conclude that we’re all a bunch of self-centered, biased losers, but I think the greater message is that we are capable of learning and growing and living more and more into who we are created to be.  We will blow it, but that doesn’t need to be the end of the story. In fact, if we are wise, we will honestly examine our mistakes, learn from them, and become healthier, more mature people making the world a better place for everyone.

     How have you grown in this regard over the course of your life?  What has helped you grow?  What keeps you from growing?  What can you incorporate into your life to foster growth?

 

 This Week’s Texts:

Mark 7:24-37 (NLT)

     Then Jesus left Galilee and went north to the region of Tyre. He didn’t want anyone to know which house he was staying in, but he couldn’t keep it a secret. Right away a woman who had heard about him came and fell at his feet. Her little girl was possessed by an evil spirit, and she begged him to cast out the demon from her daughter.

     Since she was a Gentile, born in Syrian Phoenicia, Jesus told her, “First I should feed the children—my own family, the Jews. It isn’t right to take food from the children and throw it to the dogs.”

     She replied, “That’s true, Lord, but even the dogs under the table are allowed to eat the scraps from the children’s plates.”

     “Good answer!” he said. “Now go home, for the demon has left your daughter.” And when she arrived home, she found her little girl lying quietly in bed, and the demon was gone.

     Jesus left Tyre and went up to Sidon before going back to the Sea of Galilee and the region of the Ten Towns. A deaf man with a speech impediment was brought to him, and the people begged Jesus to lay his hands on the man to heal him.

     Jesus led him away from the crowd so they could be alone. He put his fingers into the man’s ears. Then, spitting on his own fingers, he touched the man’s tongue. Looking up to heaven, he sighed and said, “Ephphatha,” which means, “Be opened!” Instantly the man could hear perfectly, and his tongue was freed so he could speak plainly!

     Jesus told the crowd not to tell anyone, but the more he told them not to, the more they spread the news. They were completely amazed and said again and again, “Everything he does is wonderful. He even makes the deaf to hear and gives speech to those who cannot speak.”

 

James 2:1-17 (NLT)

     My dear brothers and sisters, how can you claim to have faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ if you favor some people over others?

     For example, suppose someone comes into your meeting dressed in fancy clothes and expensive jewelry, and another comes in who is poor and dressed in dirty clothes. If you give special attention and a good seat to the rich person, but you say to the poor one, “You can stand over there, or else sit on the floor”—well, doesn’t this discrimination show that your judgments are guided by evil motives?

     Listen to me, dear brothers and sisters. Hasn’t God chosen the poor in this world to be rich in faith? Aren’t they the ones who will inherit the Kingdom he promised to those who love him? But you dishonor the poor! Isn’t it the rich who oppress you and drag you into court? Aren’t they the ones who slander Jesus Christ, whose noble name you bear?

     Yes indeed, it is good when you obey the royal law as found in the Scriptures: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” But if you favor some people over others, you are committing a sin. You are guilty of breaking the law.

     For the person who keeps all of the laws except one is as guilty as a person who has broken all of God’s laws. For the same God who said, “You must not commit adultery,” also said, “You must not murder.” So if you murder someone but do not commit adultery, you have still broken the law.

      So whatever you say or whatever you do, remember that you will be judged by the law that sets you free. There will be no mercy for those who have not shown mercy to others. But if you have been merciful, God will be merciful when he judges you.

     What good is it, dear brothers and sisters, if you say you have faith but don’t show it by your actions? Can that kind of faith save anyone? Suppose you see a brother or sister who has no food or clothing, and you say, “Good-bye and have a good day; stay warm and eat well”—but then you don’t give that person any food or clothing. What good does that do?   

     So you see, faith by itself isn’t enough. Unless it produces good deeds, it is dead and useless.

Being and Doing

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This week’s texts: James 1:17-27 and Mark 7:1-8

“Damn!”  That was the first word of the first line I had to say as Horace Vandergelder, the character I played in the musical, Hello, Dolly, during my sophomore year in high school.  It was a tough line for me, having grown up in church, the child of the pastor, the grandchild of pastors.  There was no swearing in the household I grew up in. None.  It took me awhile to pull off the first line convincingly, and I kind of needed my parent’s blessing to feel okay about it.

     A couple of years later, my brother and dad and I were hitching up our boat in order to go water skiing the next day.  I don’t remember exactly what happened, but somehow I got my finger pinched or something – nothing serious – and I blurted out “Damn it!” right in front of my brother and dad.  Everything went kind of quiet.  Nobody said anything.  Nobody knew what to do.  Apparently, I had gotten pretty comfortable with this particular word, but nobody else in my family was comfortable with it (even though I am sure my brother was, too, just not around family).  My parents are not swearers, and I am glad for that.  It’s just not who they are.  And swearing is still foreign in their home.  Years later, while visiting them in northern Michigan, we visited a town that had a dam near a harbor that led out to Lake Michigan.  The harbor was a tourist trap and featured a candy store – the Dam Candy Store.  My son and daughter were excited to get candy and take them home to grandma in bags that stated, “I bought these treats from the Dam Candy Store!”

     Living in the freedom of college where I could talk any way I wanted, I remember coming out of the Student Union, calling out to a friend who was ten yards ahead of me, using a fine selection of colorful language. Unfortunately, my choir director happened to be present right when I let those beauties fly.  I was so embarrassed and ashamed.  Shortly after, I sought her out to apologize for my unchristian behavior.  But my guilt was born from a legalism more than anything else, a “shouldn’t” echoing from my childhood.

     Is this what the Christian life is about?  Are we just supposed to follow a bunch of do’s and don’ts to keep ourselves in the good graces of God? Jesus seemed to challenge that idea that the Pharisees of his day apparently adopted. He flat out said they were missing the point.

     Jesus’ brother, James, encountered a problem on the other end of the spectrum.  His audience was so confident in the love and acceptance and grace of God that personal conduct and ethics apparently were not of much concern.  Given his instruction, these folks were terrible listeners, offered commentary too soon, let their unfiltered anger rule the day, and had no control over their speech. I think I spent a season of my life in this zone and was able to justify a lot of other behaviors because of my confidence in the love and acceptance and grace of God. I believed that my attitudes and behavior did not ultimately affect God’s love for me – or my afterlife address thanks to my acceptance of Jesus – so it really didn’t matter what I did, so long as it didn’t hurt anybody.  James challenged that logic and called his audience to think more deeply about what faith they practiced and why.

     Where are you on this subject?  How do you enter this discussion?  It gets at the character and nature of God – does God really care about what we do?  And it touches on the what and why of faith itself – is the point of faith for us to simply enjoy inner peace while at the same time giving into hedonistic impulses knowing God’s grace abounds? Why are you a person of faith?  What motivates you?

     Jesus told his disciples that the way of life and faith he was teaching and modeling led to an abundance of life.  Not an abundance of things, but life.  Even if circumstances were awful, life could still be abundant.  Paul discovered this to be true and wrote about how he learned to be content no matter what he was going through – poverty or wealth, freedom or imprisonment.  He discovered that the abundance thing was true.  I have witnessed this in the slum of Huruma outside of Nairobi, Kenya.  The United States does not have this type of extreme poverty to this degree, where hundreds of thousands are packed into very tight quarters, living on next to nothing in awful conditions.  I know people of faith there who are experiencing abundant life on $2/day.  I have seen many others there who are miserable.  Their faith is the difference.

     Thomas Kelly, who helped reintroduce spiritual contemplative practices to the Western world described in his book, A Testament of Devotion, the life of faith when we are deeply rooted in God: Life from the Center is a life of unhurried peace and power.  It is simple.  It is serene.  It is amazing. It is triumphant.  It is radiant. It takes no time but occupies all our time. And it makes our life programs new and overcoming. We need not get frantic. God is at the helm. And when our little day is done, we lie down quietly in peace, for all is well. That sounds pretty good to me!  How about you?  So, what’s involved?

     James throws a curveball in his instruction to his audience.  Everything he was saying was focused on behavior that seemed to be mostly about interpersonal interactions – be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.  And watch your mouth!  But then he says that true religion is evidenced by our taking care of widows and orphans.  Wait, what?  How did we get from not swearing and getting too angry to that?  What is James getting at?

     James pulls us out of our navel-gazing-oriented spirituality to a larger picture.  Faith is not just about our inner peace.  Faith in God’s love for us and all people means that when we see others in need – especially those who are more vulnerable than others – our love compels us to act.  Not out of legalism, but out of love.  I remember a time when my son Noah was young.  I watched as an unlikely bully punched him in the stomach for no reason – just to do it, to exert his authority, for sport? My son didn’t know what to do.  I did.  I knew the kid well and stepped in with a lot of strength to advise him that his behavior was unacceptable, that he needed to apologize, and that if he dared to repeat his error, he would be dealing directly with me, not Noah.  There are times when parents need to let their kids stand up for themselves.  This was not one of those moments.  My kid needed a defender in the wake of being victimized.  I did not step in from a sense of carefully wrought moral obligation or sense of spiritual duty to please God. I stepped in because I love my son.

     When we fully embrace the love of God for ourselves and everyone else, when we see brothers and sisters in our shared human experience suffering injustice, we act. Mature spirituality would have us move from love of God and love of our fellow human beings.  If we don’t really care about the vulnerable among us – human beings and creatures and the environment – it calls into question the why behind the what of our faith, and at least suggests that we have some maturing to do.

   This stings a bit if we have mostly pursued faith for hedonistic purposes.  We want the real deal, and fast.  Yet we don’t get there without some tough work.  The poet Rumi once wrote, What sort of person says he wants to be polished and pure, then complains about being handled roughly? Love is a lawsuit where harsh evidence must be brought in.  Diamonds don’t come out of the ground ready to mount on a ring. They go through a really rough process to bring out the beauty within.

     Are you primarily a navel gazer?  Maybe it’s time for a new view.  Sometimes the new insight comes when we get ourselves into closer proximity with those who suffer injustice. Richard Rohr noted that we cannot think ourselves into a new way of living; rather, we must live ourselves into a new way of thinking.  That means getting outside of our comfort-zone bubbles, which makes us uncomfortable.  Sometimes the only way you can get close is to read from their experience, or watch, or listen.  Who are the ones around us crying out?  Will people of faith lend them an ear?

 

Homework.

1.     Why do you choose to be a person of faith?  What are your motivations?

2.     How do you determine whether or not you are following the faith fully?

3.     When you think of helping others in their need, what feelings bubble up?  What are your underlying motivations? Obligation?  Guilt? Love? Compassion?

4.     Who are the “widows and orphans”, the vulnerable people that most tug at your heartstrings currently?  How can you learn more about their experience so that you can listen, understand, and respond in helpful ways?

 

James 1:17-27 (NLT)

     Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God our Father, who created all the lights in the heavens.  He never changes or casts a shifting shadow. He chose to give birth to us by giving us his true word. And we, out of all creation, became his prized possession. Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. Human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires. So get rid of all the filth and evil in your lives, and humbly accept the word God has planted in your hearts, for it has the power to save your souls.

     But don’t just listen to God’s word. You must do what it says. Otherwise, you are only fooling yourselves. For if you listen to the word and don’t obey, it is like glancing at your face in a mirror. You see yourself, walk away, and forget what you look like. But if you look carefully into the perfect law that sets you free, and if you do what it says and don’t forget what you heard, then God will bless you for doing it.

     If you claim to be religious but don’t control your tongue, you are fooling yourself, and your religion is worthless. Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you.

 

Mark 7:1-8 (NLT)

     One day some Pharisees and teachers of religious law arrived from Jerusalem to see Jesus. They noticed that some of his disciples failed to follow the Jewish ritual of hand washing before eating. (The Jews, especially the Pharisees, do not eat until they have poured water over their cupped hands, as required by their ancient traditions. Similarly, they don’t eat anything from the market until they immerse their hands in water. This is but one of many traditions they have clung to—such as their ceremonial washing of cups, pitchers, and kettles.) So the Pharisees and teachers of religious law asked him, “Why don’t your disciples follow our age-old tradition? They eat without first performing the hand-washing ceremony.”

     Jesus replied, “You hypocrites! Isaiah was right when he prophesied about you, for he wrote,

‘These people honor me with their lips,
    but their hearts are far from me.
Their worship is a farce,
    for they teach man-made ideas as commands from God.’

For you ignore God’s law and substitute your own tradition.”

 

Psalm 15 (NLT) A psalm of David.

1 Who may worship in your sanctuary, Lord?
    Who may enter your presence on your holy hill?
2 Those who lead blameless lives and do what is right,
    speaking the truth from sincere hearts.
3 Those who refuse to gossip
    or harm their neighbors
    or speak evil of their friends.
4 Those who despise flagrant sinners,
    and honor the faithful followers of the Lord,
    and keep their promises even when it hurts.
5 Those who lend money without charging interest,
    and who cannot be bribed to lie about the innocent.
Such people will stand firm forever.

Geared Up for Battle: Defeat or Victory?

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Ephesians 6:10-20 (NRSV). Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his power. Put on the whole armor of God, so that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For our struggle is not against enemies of blood and flesh, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers of this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Therefore, take up the whole armor of God, so that you may be able to withstand on that evil day, and having done everything, to stand firm. Stand therefore, and fasten the belt of truth around your waist, and put on the breastplate of righteousness. As shoes for your feet put on whatever will make you ready to proclaim the gospel of peace. With all of these, take the shield of faith, with which you will be able to quench all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.

     Pray in the Spirit at all times in every prayer and supplication. To that end keep alert and always persevere in supplication for all the saints. Pray also for me, so that when I speak, a message may be given to me to make known with boldness the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains. Pray that I may declare it boldly, as I must speak.

     There is a lot going on here in these words wrapping up Paul’s letter to the Ephesians.  Some of what is shared here is rhetoric that borrows from the writings of Jewish prophets like Isaiah which were written centuries before and had no knowledge of such spiritual battles, but also grabs some contemporary (for Paul) paradigms of cosmology that would have been widely understood by (especially) non-Jewish Gentiles in the Roman world where Ephesus was firmly planted.  I’d like to nerd out just a moment on some hermeneutic principles, then offer some practical principles to consider for today.

     The Devil, etc.  What do we do with this?  Many Christians simply take this at face value as part of their conviction that if it’s in the Bible, it’s what God wanted us to believe.  Surely, for many who treat it as such, it works.  It must, otherwise they wouldn’t stay committed to it.  Many more people, however, are more likely to see this as yet another reason to not take the Bible seriously as it stems from an ancient cosmology that doesn’t seem to match contemporary ideologies.  The historical development of the Satan/devil figure in Judaism is quite interesting, but beyond the scope of this teaching (that I use the word development should indicate that there is a history here, a process, and that there isn’t simply one view of “evil” in the Bible).

     Hermeneutics refers to the approach we take to understand the ancient biblical text and how we apply it to our contemporary context.  Much of American Christian thought stems from schools which stick with Lower Criticism and largely reject Higher Criticism.  One simplified way to understand Lower Criticism is that the only voices allowed around the discussion table are those that agree that the Bible is inerrant and infallible. That means any voices that challenge the veracity of the scriptures are not part of the record used for deliberation.  Higher Criticism allows all relevant disciplines to offer their voice and perspective, even if it doesn’t care or even know about inerrancy or infallibility.  The Lower-Criticism-only camp grew over time, largely in reaction to scientific discovery and, in the United States in the early 1800’s, a largely Deist theological perspective held by most of the Founding Fathers that didn’t espouse the narrower view of the Bible.  I believe that the rabbinical tradition that informed Jesus welcomed more voices around the table, not less, and allowed their contributions to further shape their understanding of God and God’s involvement in creation.  This can be clearly witnessed in the Torah – the first five books in the Old Testament, where God’s will as expressed in the Law shifted over time.  Jewish thought on a lot of major areas of theology and life shifted over time, and they were okay’ish with it.  I say “ish” because we generally prefer certainty on a lot of things, and when our certainty get challenged, we often fight back instead of leaning in.  Sharing new insights got a lot of prophets killed, including Jesus.  It got me fired from a role within my denomination, and our church forced to leave our region.  Change usually comes as an unwelcome guest.  If you feel uneasy about what you read/hear as “new” theological perspectives, congratulations!  That means you are a human being. How will you determine what you believe?  What is your hermeneutical approach?

     Evil exists in the world.  There is no denying it.  People make decisions unwittingly or with malice aforethought to do things that serve themselves at the expense of others.  At times, at great expense to those others. In my view, such evil does not require an evil organization of fallen angels with Satan in command. We may talk about our demons, but I think those refer to the power of unaddressed wounds more than supernatural forces.  I could be wrong, but I don’t think a Satan figure or person exists.  If I am wrong, I am comforted by the fact that what I choose to do in response to evil, as evidenced in the life of Jesus as well as in this week’s passage to the Ephesians, is the exact same as if I believed in a literal devil.  I think it best for those who claim to be Christians – Jesus followers – to focus a lot more on the “following” of Jesus than the “arguing” about the source of evil.  If we get off the discussion of the source and look at the evil around us, perhaps we can address it more effectively?  By the way, I do believe that the writer of Ephesians believed in such a hierarchical evil Empire, and Jesus may have, too, given the rhetoric he used.  Rhetoric is powerful, yet tricky – in its use are they articulating their positions or simply leveraging the audiences’ or both?

     Gearing up for battle.  In recognition that there are forces at play beyond the naked eye, Paul advises his audience to put on the whole armor of God.  Here are some thoughts on the different pieces of gear:

·       The belt of truth is a good idea lest you find yourself caught with your pants down.  Starting the day stating that we choose to live according to the truth of God helps keep us focused on True North lest we be swayed by truth competitors.

·       The breastplate of righteousness is about living the right way, which, as Christians, is the choice to follow the example of Jesus.  We struggle with this because we tend to adopt “self-righteousness”, which is a completely different thing and, as it turns out, was diametrically opposed to the way of Jesus.

·       Shoes promoting peace?  I am pretty sure the image here is not combat boots.  Maybe house slippers?  Or vans?  Or Converse All-Stars?  Certainly Birkenstocks!  What Paul seems to be saying is that, girded up with the truth of the Spirit, the righteousness-producing way of Jesus, our demeanor is to be peace, our goal is shalom.  Combat boots might elicit a temporary reprieve of violence, but true, lasting peace does not come from a forced agreement (are you listening, US Government?  Remember Vietnam and now Afghanistan?)

·       The shield of faith is not a small circular one like Captain America’s, but rather a body-length one, usually made of wood and wrapped in leather.  Attacking a city with flaming arrows was a common offensive military maneuver that was terrifying.  When we are under attack, Paul is saying to have faith that the attack itself is not evidence that we are wrong.  Have faith that the truth, righteousness, and peace you are literally wearing is the right attire for life, even if it doesn’t go well.

·       The helmet of salvation may be a reference to the covering over your head as well as what needs to be in your head: You are fully loved by God who is forever with you and for your True Self. God is for your best your whole life long, constantly nudging you toward it and encouraging the same in everyone and everything around you.  When this temporal life is over, there is a life beyond the flesh that awaits that will blow your mind, where you already have a reservation.

·       The sword of the Spirit isn’t an actual sword, it’s more likely your words.  Some contemporary folks call the Bible the Word of God and therefore, the sword, to them, is the Bible itself.  So, they memorize lots of verses to fire at people when the time is right.  Some folks are amazing at this. I’m a fan of memorizing scripture, by the way – drawing on verses can be really helpful at times. Yet the Word is much bigger than that – even bigger than the historical person of Jesus.  The Gospel of John speaks of the Word becoming flesh (in Jesus), a Word that is eternal.  It sure seems like the Word is more like what we might call the Spirit of God, which is Godself.  It seems Paul is reminding us that since the battle isn’t really one of flesh and bone, neither should be our weapon.  We call on God to fight the things we cannot even see, which is surely why he then immediately calls his audience to pray all the time in the Spirit for everything (including him).

     Defeat. Many modern scholars do not believe that Paul wrote Ephesians – at least not alone.  There are enough peculiarities in his language to suggest that his disciples wrote it in his stead, using his name to provide credibility with the Colossian and Ephesian audiences (both letters likely went out at the same time).  The reason they needed to pen the letter is because Paul was probably dead after spending a long time imprisoned in Rome. In other words, all of Paul’s work and the prayers for his release and the winning over of the people around him did not come to pass.  He was defeated, martyred.  How could this happen?  Paul lived his life so well, so committed to the Way of Jesus?  Isn’t this the exact wrong result we should expect from a saint?  No, not really.  Jesus is the one we’re following, who certainly wore the truth belt, the righteousness-done-right breastplate, definitely wore the Birkenstocks, took a ton of arrows that seemed to bounce off his shield of faith, proclaimed to everyone the salvation-wholeness of God, and allowed God to wield the sword through him all the time.  And he was beaten and crucified.  And neither Paul nor Jesus would have changed their mission if they could do it all over again.  Defeat wasn’t failure for them.  Defeat, in their cases, was actually a sign of their faithfulness and dedication.  They believed the message was so worth living for that it was also worth suffering for and even worth dying for.  For them, as Paul said, to live is Christ and to die is gain.  Have you understood Jesus’ message this way?  Does it have a similar effect on you?

     Victory.  Jesus went first.  He died, and then his disciples experienced an afterlife expression of him a few days after he died.  The impression was so strong that they shifted from cowardice to boldness in a heartbeat and went forward in their whole armor of God for the rest of their lives.  They knew that if they took a beating, that was normal and to be expected.  They also knew that if they died for the cause that it was not the end of the story. They believed as do I that there is more, and that we can build our lives on that “more” now.  In fact, the more that we build our lives on the “more”, the more we believe in the “more” and the “more” to come!  But wait, there’s more!  Paul never met Jesus, but he did meet Christ.  He became the most unlikely disciple given his self-righteous past.  Yet because his conversion began with a glimpse of the “more”, he moved quickly to proclaim to the public that there is more to this life than flesh and blood, and so much “more” to come.  

     This coming week, I invite you to simply read the passage from Paul at the start of each day, reminding yourself to choose the truth of God, the breastplate of living the right way of Jesus (which is to live justly, love mercy, and walk humbly), wear slippers all day to communicate peace, to shield yourself with faith, to cover your head with the loving wholeness offered by God, and to trust and call on the Spirit to fight the battles you cannot see.  See what difference it makes in your day.  You might catch some defeat, honestly, but remember that there is certain victory in the end.

Wisdom

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This week we are looking at Solomon, the son of King David who became his unlikely successor.  He is heralded as the wisest man who ever lived, as a direct result of asking for wisdom from God when God offered to “grant” whatever request Solomon came up with.  There are some examples of his wisdom that are fitting with the time in which he lived; parallel examples with other cultures’ wisdom leaders are easily identified.  Indeed, in one sense, his leadership led to the development of the nation of Israel into its greatest season of power and wealth.

     What is so startling about Solomon for me is that, despite his wisdom, he made some incredibly unwise decisions that ended up setting the stage for the nation of Israel’s division and demise.  The political marriages led to the watering down and corruption of Israel’s capacity to maintain their covenant with God – the very thing that kept them strong!  Why did the wisest man ever find himself making such mistakes? As I think about Solomon, human nature in general, and my own similar experiences, a few things come to mind...

     Honesty about the voices that shaped him.  Solomon referred to his dad with incredibly glowing terms. Such remembrances are beautiful and appropriate to honor them as deserved.  Yet, we need to be honest about those who shaped us as well, doing our best to recognize how we were shaped in both positive and negative ways.  We see none such transparency or honesty from Solomon regarding David, who clearly was not as faithful and true as Solomon stated!  I have known some folks who hold their shaping characters in such high regard that they miss some of the very human aspects of these wonderful people that, if they noticed, would have helped them address the not-so-wonderful realities in their own lives.  It is not an act of dishonor to recognize the shortcomings of those who shaped us.  It is an act of self-love.  It can also be an important step toward healing and reconciling with those who shaped us.  In my experience having done this, while there are some painful steps to take on this walk, the outcome is one where I more fully appreciate those who shaped me, not less.  I hope my kids do this to me so that they can learn from my journey and see me as fully human, for better or worse.  The same approach would be wise to apply to all sources of wisdom we listen to – what are the biases of the sources we tap, and how are we accounting for them?

     Honesty about our internal forces.  Sometimes it is easier to recognize the humanity in other people than ourselves.  Knowing ourselves, as Aristotle noted, may be the beginning of wisdom, but actively monitoring what is driving our thoughts and behavior is what helps us to live wisely.  How do you keep track of what inner voices and forces are at play in your sense of self and your attitudes and behavior?  If you have no idea, that likely means that you are not much aware of such things and are probably missing some wisdom.  Most likely, you are tipped off to your humanity by others who make it known to you, sometimes, perhaps, with exasperation.  If you are married, there is a good chance your spouse is a mirror for you – sometimes reflecting very good things and other times not so much.

     I have benefitted much from personality inventories that help me appreciate how I’m wired.  The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator is one of the most widely used inventories in the world, helping people discover which of 16 types most matches themselves.  The Enneagram is extremely popular and categorizes people a bit differently into nine basic types with lots of nuance.  I have found that discovering my Enneagram type and reading through the description has helped me grow a lot in self-understanding.  And, related to living wisely, the descriptions related to health have been very helpful – I can remember times when I have not been healthy, and can see why I wasn’t.  Knowing this stuff helps me be aware of what motivates me and what I need to look out for – so helpful!  If only Solomon could have had such a tool!  Of course, there is a difference between knowing a doing. Spending time on self-discovery is critical, however, to maturing through life and avoiding the repeat button.  As the proverb goes, as a dog returns to its vomit so a fool returns to his folly (Proverbs 26:11), unreflective persons are more likely to be fools.

     Please take some time this week – how about right now? – to invest in your self understanding.  Next week, we will look at very practical tools we can use to further ensure that we are not only filling ourselves with wisdom, but living wisely.

Questions to Consider…

  1. What are the themes of your foolishness?

  2. What are the themes of the root causes of your foolishness?

  3. When are you most likely to act like a fool?

  4. Who in your life lets you know when you are acting like a fool?

  5. What is your response to being informed of your foolishness?

  6. What have you found helpful in discovering the depth of your foolishness and the root causes?

  7. What keeps you from maturing out of your foolishness?

Texts:

1 Kings 3:1-14 (MSG)

Solomon arranged a marriage contract with Pharaoh, king of Egypt. He married Pharaoh’s daughter and brought her to the City of David until he had completed building his royal palace and God’s Temple and the wall around Jerusalem. Meanwhile, the people were worshiping at local shrines because at that time no temple had yet been built to the Name of God. Solomon loved God and continued to live in the God-honoring ways of David his father, except that he also worshiped at the local shrines, offering sacrifices and burning incense.

     The king went to Gibeon, the most prestigious of the local shrines, to worship. He sacrificed a thousand Whole-Burnt-Offerings on that altar. That night, there in Gibeon, God appeared to Solomon in a dream: God said, “What can I give you? Ask.”

     Solomon said, “You were extravagantly generous in love with David my father, and he lived faithfully in your presence, his relationships were just and his heart right. And you have persisted in this great and generous love by giving him—and this very day!—a son to sit on his throne.

     “And now here I am: God, my God, you have made me, your servant, ruler of the kingdom in place of David my father. I’m too young for this, a mere child! I don’t know the ropes, hardly know the ‘ins’ and ‘outs’ of this job. And here I am, set down in the middle of the people you’ve chosen, a great people—far too many to ever count.

     “Here’s what I want: Give me a God-listening heart so I can lead your people well, discerning the difference between good and evil. For who on their own is capable of leading your glorious people?”

     God, the Master, was delighted with Solomon’s response. And God said to him, “Because you have asked for this and haven’t grasped after a long life, or riches, or the doom of your enemies, but you have asked for the ability to lead and govern well, I’ll give you what you’ve asked for—I’m giving you a wise and mature heart. There’s never been one like you before; and there’ll be no one after. As a bonus, I’m giving you both the wealth and glory you didn’t ask for—there’s not a king anywhere who will come up to your mark. And if you stay on course, keeping your eye on the life-map and the God-signs as your father David did, I’ll also give you a long life.”

 

Ephesians 5:15-20 (MSG)

     Don’t waste your time on useless work, mere busywork, the barren pursuits of darkness. Expose these things for the sham they are. It’s a scandal when people waste their lives on things they must do in the darkness where no one will see. Rip the cover off those frauds and see how attractive they look in the light of Christ.

Wake up from your sleep,
Climb out of your coffins;
Christ will show you the light!

     So watch your step. Use your head. Make the most of every chance you get. These are desperate times!

     Don’t live carelessly, unthinkingly. Make sure you understand what the Master wants.

     Don’t drink too much wine. That cheapens your life. Drink the Spirit of God, huge drafts of him. Sing hymns instead of drinking songs! Sing songs from your heart to Christ. Sing praises over everything, any excuse for a song to God the Father in the name of our Master, Jesus Christ.

Quotes on Wisdom:

“The fool doth think he is wise, but the wise man knows himself to be a fool.” 
― William Shakespeare, As You Like It 

“Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to reform (or pause and reflect).” 
― Mark Twain 

“Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” 
― Aristotle 

“The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.” 
― Socrates 

“Any fool can know. The point is to understand.” 
― Albert Einstein

“Turn your wounds into wisdom.” 
― Oprah Winfrey

“By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest.” 
― Confucious

“Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.” 
― Rumi

“Fear of the Lord is the foundation of true knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.”

– Solomon, Proverbs 1:7; 9:10

Bread

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Here are some of my thoughts on this week’s passage, John 6:24-35 (see below):

     The Peoples’ Demand.  The people who wanted Jesus to perform a Moses-like sign were not among those who saw the miracle of the loaves and fishes.  Jesus certainly raised their curiosity – he was known for his healing power and provocative teachings.  But many in that time claimed to be God’s anointed.  For some of them, they simply wanted a proof of sorts.  They were all from Missouri, apparently. I wonder if wanting a particular sign from heaven was part of the problem Jesus wanted to address.  Beyond wanting to know Jesus was legitimate, I think this may speak to a larger human issue.  Is this a sign of them wanting to control things – I’ll only go so long as you deliver the goods?  Or is this akin to our current consumer orientation that will eventually result in their disdain when Jesus doesn’t deliver the goods that they want? Or is it a sign of them wanting to be assured of their right belief?  Or did they just want a free lunch? It sure seems like a “what are you going to do for me”, transactional orientation.  What else might it be?

     Jesus’ Response.  It is interesting that Jesus first called them to a higher way of thinking – free food is not the point (neither is health or wealth). Jesus also clarified for the people that Moses was not the source of the manna and quail, but rather God – I AM – was the provider.  The multiplication of the bread and fish miracle was a sign from God and not the point in and of itself.  The sign was the seal that God was working in Jesus.  Yet, the sign was also a metaphor that Jesus now took to a deeper place.  There is a bread that forever satisfies, and a drink that forever quenches our thirst. That bread is Godself whom Jesus embodied so fully.  The way we eat the bread is through belief in Jesus, what he was saying, what he was passionate about, and what he was doing.  

     Here and now.  Since the 1800’s In the United States, hell avoidance and heaven assurance have been central in the loudest voice of Christianity. Evangelist Charles Finney mastered the art, using fear of death and eternal punishment in hell as a chief motivator to get people to cross the line of faith.  Certainly, Christianity does speak to hope after death.  But I think for many people it became the only message.  Fear became the primary underlying motive.  Getting rewarded with heaven for signing on with the right faith not only provided hope, it also created a new class of people.  True believers were in, and non-believers were out.  Life-after-death concerns – which were not primary for Jesus – eclipsed the much more relevant aspect of the Good News: Life!  Jesus taught an alternative way of living and being in the world, one intimately connected with God who loves us unconditionally, is always working in our lives and in the world toward well-being, who is as close as each breath, who is in us, around us, and beyond us.  Life after death is essentially an after-thought, not central.  Life after death is assumed, but not ever to be the primary focus of our lives.   Learning to live in this dynamic relationship is a process.  That process is the Way.

 

 

John 6:24-35 (NLT)

So when the crowd saw that neither Jesus nor his disciples were there, they got into the boats and went across to Capernaum to look for him. They found him on the other side of the lake and asked, “Rabbi, when did you get here?”

     Jesus replied, “I tell you the truth, you want to be with me because I fed you, not because you understood the miraculous signs. But don’t be so concerned about perishable things like food. Spend your energy seeking the eternal life that the Son of Man can give you. For God the Father has given me the seal of his approval.”

     They replied, “We want to perform God’s works, too. What should we do?”

     Jesus told them, “This is the only work God wants from you: Believe in the one he has sent.”

     They answered, “Show us a miraculous sign if you want us to believe in you. What can you do? After all, our ancestors ate manna while they journeyed through the wilderness! The Scriptures say, ‘Moses gave them bread from heaven to eat.’”

     Jesus said, “I tell you the truth, Moses didn’t give you bread from heaven. My Father did. And now he offers you the true bread from heaven. The true bread of God is the one who comes down from heaven and gives life to the world.”

     “Sir,” they said, “give us that bread every day.”

     Jesus replied, “I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never be hungry again. Whoever believes in me will never be thirsty.

 

Ephesians 4:1-6 (MSG)

In light of all this, here's what I want you to do. While I'm locked up here, a prisoner for the Master, I want you to get out there and walk—better yet, run!—on the road God called you to travel. I don't want any of you sitting around on your hands. I don't want anyone strolling off, down some path that goes nowhere. And mark that you do this with humility and discipline—not in fits and starts, but steadily, pouring yourselves out for each other in acts of love, alert at noticing differences and quick at mending fences.

     You were all called to travel on the same road and in the same direction, so stay together, both outwardly and inwardly. You have one Master, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all, who rules over all, works through all, and is present in all. Everything you are and think and do is permeated with Oneness.

 

Spirit of Peace Creed by Tim Tahtinen

I believe in God the creator, whose love is the life force of the universe:

Who believes in us, trusts us and empowers us;

Who lives in us and through us and fills us with wonder.  

 

I believe in Jesus, God’s own son;

Who showed, through his life, the heart and character of God;

Who lived to raise up the lowly, loved those unloved, 

fed those who hungered and healed those with sickness;

Who taught adults and laughed with children;

Who was crucified for speaking truth to power.

Who was raised by God to live forever; and 

Who inspires us to truly live.

 

I believe in God’s Spirit; Who brings the mystery of God Into our hearts;

Who guides us through a familiar whisper of truth;

Who sparks our creative passions;

Who comes to all in the bread and wine;

Who gathers us into one family; and sends us out to be the good news.   

 

The Lord’s Prayer

Our Father, who art in Heaven, hallowed be Thy name.

Thy Kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

Deliver us from evil. Lead us not into temptation.

For Thine is the Kingdom and the Power, and the Glory forever. Amen.

Pain, Prayer, God, and Healing

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Healing

     The apostles returned to Jesus from their ministry tour and told him all they had done and taught. Then Jesus said, “Let’s go off by ourselves to a quiet place and rest awhile.” He said this because there were so many people coming and going that Jesus and his apostles didn’t even have time to eat.

     So, they left by boat for a quiet place, where they could be alone. But many people recognized them and saw them leaving, and people from many towns ran ahead along the shore and got there ahead of them. Jesus saw the huge crowd as he stepped from the boat, and he had compassion on them because they were like sheep without a shepherd. So, he began teaching them many things...

     After they had crossed the lake, they landed at Gennesaret. They brought the boat to shore and climbed out. The people recognized Jesus at once, and they ran throughout the whole area, carrying sick people on mats to wherever they heard he was. Wherever he went—in villages, cities, or the countryside—they brought the sick out to the marketplaces. They begged him to let the sick touch at least the fringe of his robe, and all who touched him were healed. – Mark 6:30-34; 53-56 (NLT)

     Here are some things that jumped out at me this week related to the above text:

     Jesus had compassion. When we look at Jesus, we see a whole lot of God reflected.  A dominant trait we see is love.  In this passage, we find Jesus and the disciples tired and needing rest, yet the crowds clamor for more.  We know that Jesus practiced balance and self-care, which he was attempting to achieve in this story.  It wasn’t going to happen quite yet.  What do we see in Jesus?  Not anger, not disdain, not indifference.  We see compassion.  The Greek word means to be deeply moved.  Not a surfacy, lightweight pity.  This came from his gut.  He felt them.  This is true of God. God is connected to everyone and everything in creation.  When we hurt, God feels it.  Because God loves us, God also acts in loving ways as much as possible.

     Jesus taught and healed.  Not only does Jesus feel compassion, but Jesus also does something in response.  The response was to love them right where they were.  I usually separate and differentiate his teaching ministry from his healing ministry.  I think that may be a mistake.  Sometimes our worldview – which is informed or at least includes our theology – can be very damaging, causing pain in ourselves and others.  I’ve known people who have done terrible things while feeling completely justified by their theological reasoning and biblical proof texting.  I’ve known people who have been crippled by a theology that left them feeling very alone, judged, and utterly hopeless. I’ve known people who have walked away from God because their theological framework couldn’t adequately handle life’s toughest questions, and ultimately led to the conclusion that God doesn’t exist or is such a fickle jerk that God is not worth knowing or following.  So, I wonder what heals more for longer, restoring sight to blind eyes or providing people with a new vision of God and life?

     People believed.  People believed that Jesus – and the Spirit of God at work in him – was loving and kind.  That is a big first step in faith.  What do you believe is the primary nature of God?  Is God truly loving?  The people apparently believed so.  I think this is a very important first thing to consider: do you believe God is primarily known by love and loves you?  Yet believing isn’t simply mental ascent.  The kind of belief that we see here is the same kind of belief we see in Jesus.  Jesus saw the needs of the people (intellectual understanding), had compassion (he was deeply, emotionally affected), and he responded with teaching and healing (action).  Similarly, the people recognized that Jesus offered liberating insight and healing capacity that they needed (intellectual clarity), were aware of their desperation for it (deeply, emotionally moved), and they got themselves where they needed to be (action).  God is always loving and always working in loving ways to bring shalom (well-being, deep peace and harmony) into the world.  Yet God cannot singlehandedly heal anybody – healing of all kinds requires cooperation on the part of all involved.  Sometimes our willingness is enough to tip the scales toward healing. Sometimes there are other variables out of our control – and God’s – that restrict healing.

Pain and Prayer. When we are in pain, prayer is effective.When we pray, we are opened up to God in powerful ways.Because we are more connected to everything than we can possibly imagine, we do not fully realize what that simple act of praying does to impact everything else, giving God more to work with.It minimum, our prayer serves our relationship with God who is our strength and source of love, life, and hope.And I believe myriad forms of healing follow.

The Death of John

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The Death of John the Baptist. What a lovely story we’ve been provided by the Gospels!  Did you catch the Hallmark Channel movie about it?  How about the children’s books? No, because neither exist!  Yet this account is actually helpful to us in many ways – at least it is for me.  Here are a few of my thoughts:

     Bad things happen.  We can do everything right, in lockstep with God, and still experience the worst of life, the worst from others, etc. This flies in the face of popular, shallow, poorly founded renderings of the faith expressed by Prosperity Gospel voices that proclaim that if you just have enough faith, you will be healed, you’ll get that job, and you can become financially secure.  Jolly Ovalteen is perhaps the most popular mouthpiece for this perspective in the United States.  One thing is certain: he has certainly grown incredibly rich from this perspective – from the poor suckers who give him their money, assured that God’s tenfold blessing will follow. Unfortunately, pain and suffering come anyway.  The bad experience usually isn’t God’s will, unless, of course, the bad stuff is us rightfully losing some things that we were stingy with or inappropriate with: the consequences of greed, lust, cheating, etc.

     The Uncontrolling Love of God versus Omnipotent God.  Research regarding religious practices in the United States makes a strong case that most people – even those who claim to be devout adherents of their faith – haven’t really plunged the depths of their beliefs through simply reading the Bible, let alone reading what scholars have to say about it.  Most folks practice a faith with conflicting ideas that cannot really live together, creating some serious dissonance in their faith experience.  Thomas Jay Oord has written several books detailing this tension.  He rightly notes that we have to decide which characteristic of God is primary: that God is all loving, or that God is all powerful.  It makes a massive difference.  If God is truly all powerful, John the Baptist would not have been executed.  Neither would millions of Jews have been executed by Nazism’s holocaust.  For more information, read Oord’s latest book, Open and Relational Theology, a very accessible book for general readers – the academics are sound, but it doesn’t read like a textbook.

     Why Bother with Faith?  If faith doesn’t somehow guarantee some protections – or worse, execution(!) – then I think some folks may simply walk away from the whole thing.  Especially if you have a transactional theology operating under your hood whereby you do your part so God must do God’s part, John’s death story may be extremely unsettling.  I encourage you to take away whatever “benefits” we might expect from faith, including the promise of heaven.  With all of that off the table, we are left with some essential questions: who do we really want to be?  What do we really want for our lives?  What do we want for our loved one’s lives?  What do we want for humanity?  For the created world?  For our country and other countries?  When we start asking questions like these, we start getting at core issues that really matter, and we also recognize a variety of life paths available.  I believe that Jesus proclaimed the highest hopes for the world and the path to get there.  The hopes/ends and means are both rooted in the Spirit, the essence of God.  These dreamy ideals are worth living into and dying for.  I have experienced pain and suffering because I have leaned into them, and I am so glad I did!  I am confident that there is more beyond the grave, that I will be welcomed, and that it will be more wonderfully mind-blowing than we can possibly imagine.  Yet my heavenly hope is not what keeps me on the straight and narrow.  I choose the less traveled path because, in my experience, Jesus was absolutely correct when he said the Way he was teaching and modeling leads to life in abundance.  Not wealth or health necessarily, but true, deep, enduring abundance.  I hope you and all people discover this, too, for it is the hope of the world.

            Jim Elliott.  Jim Elliott wanted to be a missionary, went through all the proper training, and made his way to Ecuador to try and reach some indigenous people there with the message of Jesus.  After a few years on the ground trying to figure out how to make contact, he and three other missionaries (plus an airplane pilot) began dropping gifts for the local tribe and using a loudspeaker to communicate words of welcome and kindness.  The five eventually created a small basecamp from which they hoped to begin reaching out directly to the tribe.  Some tribe members came to visit them and, judging by the positive exchange, it seemed like the outlook was good.  On January 8, 1956, the missionaries were getting ready to leave their camp to seek out the tribe when a group of 10 tribal warriors met them at the camp first.  Jim Elliott went to greet them and was immediately killed with a warrior’s spear.  All five men were killed and thrown into a river. They were found downstream sometime later.  Think what you want about such missionary approaches, but also think about the level of conviction Elliott and his comrades had as well regarding the faith they embraced.  In his journal, he noted: "he is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain that which he cannot lose."

     Bonus: Nerd Notes.  When we read this story, it feels like lore (as it should).  The ancient historian Josephus recorded John’s execution after imprisonment in a much less dramatic retelling: he was executed in a prison quite a distance away from Herod Antipas’ palace, with no mention of any surrounding drama.  From a Roman history perspective, this adds up.  John was another upstart causing problems.  The solution was very often imprisonment and death. Why do the Gospels give us such a detailed tale?  Because they want to connect some dots for the readers who will remember Jewish stories with similarities: Ahab, Jezebel, and Naaman; Elijah and Jezebel; and Esther’s winning a favor from her husband-king.  Whether or not the story happened as the Gospels portray is irrelevant by ancient standards. Our focus should rather be on John’s execution, the reason behind it, and the implications for how we think about faith.

Hometown Dustup

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Here are some things that jumped out at me from this week’s text, Mark 6:1-13 (NLT):

  • Not all environments are conducive to health, healing, growth, and success.  Things just didn’t go well in Nazareth.  Jesus’ family and long-time friends had a difficult time making room for Jesus to be more than a carpenter.  Welcome to Family Systems Theory 101!  Our families of origin – even incredibly healthy ones – are a system that does not like to be tweaked.  When a part of that system gets out of order, the whole system sometimes moves to get everyone back in line.  Sometimes these systems restrain us from good, new things. Sometimes, however, not so much.

    • Have you ever been in a situation where the context made it difficult for you to be anything other than what you had always been, where becoming something more or different or better was somehow harder than in other spaces?  Have there been times when the system was helping you stay healthy? Have you ever been part of a system that allowed you to change and grow?  How long did it take?

  • Being in Nazareth was likely difficult for Jesus to live into his anointing.  We do not live in a vacuum.  Like it or not, or believe it or not, we are connected more than we realize.  Our actions affect those around us, and their actions affect us, too.  As one who is in front of a crowd regularly, I can tell you that the energy and response of the crowd can significantly impact my energy.  There is a very real energy dynamic at work.  SF Giants Pitcher, Johnny Cuedo, feeds off the crowd’s energy, which is one reason that contributed to his good performance on June 25: it was the first large crowd he had pitched in front of since the pandemic began.  He pitched over a month earlier on Mother’s Day, and flopped – could this have been related to the fact that it was a severely limited crowd? On a deeper level, I think it takes enormous strength and energy to overcome the impact of a context that is inconducive to health, healing, growth, and success.  I believe Jesus’ capacity to perform was hindered by the effect of the crowd – the context messed with him, too.  If this anointed person struggled, is it possible other human beings might, too?  Perhaps it’s time to give ourselves a break?

    • Have you ever experienced the difference between a crowd of support being behind you versus one that is indifferent or against you? What must this be like for people with little or no support?

  • We can assume that Jesus was sure he was all about promoting shalom with shalom.  When faced with a context that was not conducive and perhaps hostile, and aware that this dynamic was no doubt messing with him, he chose to pivot.  He moved forward in an expanded way to continue his mission.  He moved on. Sometimes that’s a way or the only way to live into your True Self.

    • Have you ever needed to fly the coup in some way?  Did you leave baggage behind or was it as clean as it could be?  What was that experience like for you?  What were among the benefits of leaving?  What was hard about it?

  • The disciples were sent in pairs to the surrounding villages to carry out the mission of bringing more shalom into the world with shalom.  They were sent, which means the sender believed in them, yet they were also sent in Jesus’ name.  They were sent in the same power and the same way as Jesus.  They weren’t sent out as Lone Rangers – they had a model to follow.  I wonder how everything might be different if Jesus followers followed Jesus so carefully that the world would see the connection instead of the disparity?  This explains some of the instruction, by the way, about not taking too much stuff and staying with the first host, not the richest host: all of these were related to living in the Way of Jesus.

    • When have you been expected to represent something larger than your own ego?  What was good about it?  What was challenging? How has your understanding of Christianity included representing Jesus well?  How has that worked for you?  What areas in your life need work in that regard?

  • Shaking the dust off your feet.  On the one hand, this is a clear statement toward the people whose dust you collected.  However, it is possible that when the disciples did this, nobody noticed.  Therefore, perhaps the practice was equally good for the disciples themselves – or even more so.  Assessment was required on the part of the disciples to determine whether they did all that they could do.  This took some time for reflection and honesty.  When they determined that it simply did not make sense to keep grinding away on something that simply was not going to budge, the act of shaking the dust off their feet must have been cathartic. “I’ve done as much as anybody could.  I can leave in peace.”

    • Have you ever been in a situation that you assessed needed to be in your rear-view mirror?  How did you mark the moment? What was it like?  Are you facing a similar situation now?  How are you feeling about it? What do you need in place to feel peace about shaking the dust off your feet?

  • Not all of Nazareth remained in disbelief.  By the time Jesus was executed, his brothers had come around.  One, James, is even credited with a letter in the New Testament bearing his name.  It would be easy for Jesus to look at his time in his hometown as a waste of energy.  But there is a verse in Isaiah (55:11) where God states that God’s word will not come back void but will produce fruit.  Sometimes what we do is scatter seed.  We will not necessarily see the fruit, and that’s just the way it is.  It is not necessarily good, but it is true.  Benjamin Lay lived in the United States leading up to the American Revolution.  A widely traveled and well-read man, and husband to his wife, a Quaker pastor, he became an outspoken proponent of abolition.  He was convinced that slavery was completely inconsistent with Christian ethics.  One of the people had conversed with regularly was Benjamin Franklin who was himself a slave owner.  So respected was Lay by the Franklin household that a picture of Lay hung in their home!  So influential was Lay that in his will, Franklin granted freedom for his slaves upon his death.  He almost nailed it!  It would have been nice if he believed so strongly to grant their freedom immediately.  Sigh.  Philadelphia physician Benjamin Rush, whose signature can be found on the Declaration of Independence, wrote, “The success of Mr. Lay, in sowing seeds of... a revolution in morals, commerce, and government, and in the new and in the old world, should teach the benefactors of mankind not to despair, if they do not see the fruits of their benevolent propositions, or undertakings, during their lives. Some of these seeds produce their fruits in a short time, but the most valuable of them, like the venerable oak, are centuries in growing.”  Don’t lose hope if your good work didn’t pan out like you hoped – what God is about will produce one way or another.

    • Have you ever felt like you wasted a ton of time for nothing?  Have you ever worked hard and experienced the fruit of your labor?  How does knowing that Jesus’ family eventually came around affect your level of hope?

 

Take your spirituality deeper.  I strongly encourage spending time daily reading and reflecting on a particular text.  I am currently following the Lectionary, which you can use to review the texts I’ve taught or the ones coming up.  Make the most of it!

Healing on the Way

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This Week’s Primary Text: (Mark 5:21-43)

I think the following questions will help you get a lot from this text this week.  I share some of my personal intersection with the text below. Tip: I get the most from each week’s text by making time to read it slowly every day, with plenty of time, solitude, and silence to sit with it, write down some thoughts, be still enough to give the Spirit a chance to nudge me, etc.  Give it a try!

Jairus

·       What courage was required to humble himself to go personally and beg Jesus for help?

·       What was he advocating for? Given Jesus’ response, how does this inform our prayer life?

·       What restraint was necessary when Jesus stopped to help the unclean woman?

·       What was Jairus’ process in this healing story beyond the initial request?  How does this inform our imagination going forward?

·       How did you think he felt about the private audience v. crowd?

·       How did he feel about interacting with an unclean woman?

 

Hemorrhaging Woman

·       How do you suppose the woman’s poverty shaped her vision of herself? How might that have impacted her courage to seek healing? 

·       What impact do you think being ostracized from the faith community had on her sense of self and over all wellbeing? 

·       What courage was required for her to risk offending such an anointed one as Jesus?  What do you suppose went through her head?

·       What was she advocating for?  How does that inform our prayer life?

·       Why didn’t Jesus take credit for the healing?  How do we understand it?

·       What courage was required for her to wait for what was next following her immediate healing?

·       Would healing have happened even if her physical issues continued?

·       What did Jesus’ addressing her as “Daughter” communicate to her, to the disciples, Jairus, the crowd, us?

 

Jesus

·       What do you suppose was the primary purpose of including these two healing stories in Mark’s Gospel?

·       Why did Jesus tell the crowd not to follow to Jairus’ home?

·       Why did Jesus use the phrase “rise up” among so many other options?

·       Why did Jesus tell the Jairus’ parents not to tell people what happened?

·       Jesus’ pause created another healing in restoring the relationship that had faded.

 

Me

·       Where am I too proud to pray for help? Where am I too self-loathing to pray for help?

·       Why is courage required in the asking as well as in the surrender to what’s next?

·       What else might be healed beyond the issue I am praying for?

 

Wow!  What a rich story!  So much here to chew on that helps me see humanity more clearly as well as the nature of God as it worked through Jesus.  I have been thinking a bit about barriers to asking for help.  Jairus’ pride certainly was an obstacle; his humility in asking Jesus for help likely raised some eyebrows and helped build the crowd.  The woman’s low self-esteem was equally challenging to overcome – how many of us do not feel worthy to ask for help in some way?  At least for myself, I recognize that I am both Jairus and the woman – there prideful parts of me and there are also parts of me that I am not proud of – both keep me from reaching out to others and God.  

            Another piece of this has to do with the timing and the length of the encounter between Jesus and the woman.  Imagine if Jesus and Jairus were just 100 yards from his home where his daughter lay dying – just a couple of minutes away.  Imagine Jairus’ impatience and frustration at being slowed down – I would be!  Imagine the emotion he felt when he got the news that they were too late – was he angry for a moment?  What if they had not stopped for the woman?  I would be beside myself with a huge, messy ball of emotion.  Post-resurrection of his daughter, I wonder if he circled back to that scene.  I wonder if it dawned on him that Jesus called her “daughter”, and that she was as valued as his own little girl.  I wonder how humbling that must have been, as well as eye opening, mind blowing and heartwarming.  I imagine the same must have been true for the healed woman.  Jesus took time for her, did not reject her, and even called her daughter.  What a radical shift in perspective.  They looked at themselves, God, and each other differently after that.  How could they not?

            

Some pretty good quotes...

 

“You are never really well, just less sick.” – 70-Something-Year-Old Man

 

 

One who does what the Friend wants done

will never need a friend.

 

There is a bankruptcy that is pure gain.

The moon stays bright

when it does not avoid the night.

 

A rose’s rarest essence

lives in the thorn. – Rumi

 

 

Our suffering in this life may be unspeakable; we may feel ourselves to be completely isolated and alone, but in truth God is with us.  Not assuaging or canceling the pain but inhabiting it – and thereby transforming it. – Deborah Smith Douglas, “Enclosed in Darkness,” Weavings

 

 

Psalm 130

From the depths of despair, O Lord,
    I call for your help.
Hear my cry, O Lord.
    Pay attention to my prayer.

Lord, if you kept a record of our sins,
    who, O Lord, could ever survive?
But you offer forgiveness,
    that we might learn to fear you.

I am counting on the Lord;
    yes, I am counting on him.
    I have put my hope in his word.
I long for the Lord
    more than sentries long for the dawn,
    yes, more than sentries long for the dawn.

O Israel, hope in the Lord;
    for with the Lord there is unfailing love.
    His redemption overflows.
He himself will redeem Israel
    from every kind of sin.

 

Mark 5:21-43 (NLT)

21 Jesus got into the boat again and went back to the other side of the lake, where a large crowd gathered around him on the shore. 22 Then a leader of the local synagogue, whose name was Jairus, arrived. When he saw Jesus, he fell at his feet, 23 pleading fervently with him. “My little daughter is dying,” he said. “Please come and lay your hands on her; heal her so she can live.”

24 Jesus went with him, and all the people followed, crowding around him.25 A woman in the crowd had suffered for twelve years with constant bleeding. 26 She had suffered a great deal from many doctors, and over the years she had spent everything she had to pay them, but she had gotten no better. In fact, she had gotten worse. 27 She had heard about Jesus, so she came up behind him through the crowd and touched his robe. 28 For she thought to herself, “If I can just touch his robe, I will be healed.”29 Immediately the bleeding stopped, and she could feel in her body that she had been healed of her terrible condition.

30 Jesus realized at once that healing power had gone out from him, so he turned around in the crowd and asked, “Who touched my robe?”

31 His disciples said to him, “Look at this crowd pressing around you. How can you ask, ‘Who touched me?’”

32 But he kept on looking around to see who had done it. 33 Then the frightened woman, trembling at the realization of what had happened to her, came and fell to her knees in front of him and told him what she had done. 34 And he said to her, “Daughter, your faith has made you well. Go in peace. Your suffering is over.”

35 While he was still speaking to her, messengers arrived from the home of Jairus, the leader of the synagogue. They told him, “Your daughter is dead. There’s no use troubling the Teacher now.”

36 But Jesus overheard[a] them and said to Jairus, “Don’t be afraid. Just have faith.”

37 Then Jesus stopped the crowd and wouldn’t let anyone go with him except Peter, James, and John (the brother of James). 38 When they came to the home of the synagogue leader, Jesus saw much commotion and weeping and wailing. 39 He went inside and asked, “Why all this commotion and weeping? The child isn’t dead; she’s only asleep.”

40 The crowd laughed at him. But he made them all leave, and he took the girl’s father and mother and his three disciples into the room where the girl was lying. 41 Holding her hand, he said to her, “Talitha koum,” which means “Little girl, get up!” 42 And the girl, who was twelve years old, immediately stood up and walked around! They were overwhelmed and totally amazed.43 Jesus gave them strict orders not to tell anyone what had happened, and then he told them to give her something to eat.

 

Faith-Full Life

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Let the center brighten your sight. – Rumi

This week’s lectionary texts offered an abundance of fodder for spiritual/personal growth: the story of David and Goliath, Jesus calming the storm, and Paul’s testimony about his experience walking deeply with God through great hardship were especially meaningful to me.  The biggest thing that emerged for me has to do with the power of faith in the face of fear, and what is involved in living faithfully.  Here are some of my thoughts...

David and Goliath.  Israel’s army and king were trapped by their fear of the giant Goliath.  David, who wasn’t stuck in the trenches with them but came into the situation from a different space, saw with faith instead, and realized that he himself was able to take down the human redwood.  I think the miracle here is that David brought all his gifts, skills, and practice to bear on the situation.  He threw off Saul’s heavy armor – it wasn’t tailored for him.  He only needed what he already had – his sling and some good stones.  He was a sharpshooter.  Which miracle is more inspiring – that God somehow guided the stone to kill Goliath, or the one where everything in David came together to defeat the enemy using the very miracle of his life?  Steph Curry has miraculously battled giants hundreds of times.  How?  By honing his skill through relentless work and practice.  What are we capable of?  What are the giants you are facing?  What’s the tool you bring to the field?

Jesus Calms the Storm.  The disciples were freaking out while Jesus took a nap.  They were all in the same boat battling the storm, yet only one was calm.  What did Jesus do when the disciples woke him up?  He rebuked the stormy wind and sea and they went calm.  This is the language of exorcism.  There is power in naming our fear, and there is power in rebuking it, too.  Sometimes the rebuke itself has surprising impact on us mentally and physically.  It is a statement of refusing to be controlled by fear and instead choosing the reality of faith.  Try it out – yell into a pillow if you need to – and see what happens.  What harm can it do?

Paul’s Encouragement. What a fascinating thing Paul says to the Corinthians!  Today is the day of salvation – don’t miss it or waste it!  And by the way, living out my faith has put me through a lot of hardship, and yet joy was there all along.  It is more than worth it.  Paul is talking about living from a centered life here, a life that is motivated and shaped by his faith.  Hardship is unavoidable – that’s life.  Yet somehow Paul’s way of life – which was the way Jesus taught and modeled – allowed him to persevere.  He had faith-formed eyes that allowed him to appreciate all the good of God and life despite and in spite of hardship.  He saw each day as the day of salvation.  I’ve heard it said that each day is a gift – that’s why we call it the present.  Gag me.  Am I the only one who would like to return some of these gifts?  And yet, there is truth here.  I think, however, that we need to add a line: the more we are present, the more we are able to see the gifts each day brings.  This is why Paul could say the things he said – his outward circumstances did not shake his foundation of faith.  He did not allow is circumstantial reality to distract him from ultimate reality, which is eternal, which is Spirit, which is God. One way of life has us focus on things that are not really real.  The Way has us live from Reality.  Cultivating that perspective takes time and discipline, and if we don’t maintain it we can find ourselves right back into a paradigm of fear.  It will happen.  Get back to Reality as fast as you can.